Some rules are important in the work environment: Dressing right, having a good relationship with colleagues, behaving appropriately, among other factors, help any employee to be taken seriously.
But there is another point that also makes a difference: the way you speak. A few seemingly innocent sentences can put everything to lose. Career coach Tara Sophia Mohr cites some things that should be eliminated from your everyday speech:
- Does this make sense?
The phrase suggests that you think the person was inconsistent in what he said. Instead, ask: What are your thoughts on this? Tell me more about your ideas. - Actually?
Beginning the sentence with this expression makes it appear that you are surprised, or disagree with what has been said. - Sorry but?
Don't apologize for taking up space or having something to say. It gives the impression that you are doing something wrong. - I think?
? I think we should go in a different direction ??,? I think the report should be rearranged ?? This word is used when unsure of ideas, and that's bad. - Speak too fast
Hurry, run with words, accumulate sentences in a long sequence. This happens a lot when a person doesn't want to take up too much time in a meeting or conversation. But the best alternative is always to speak concise sentences, with clear endings, and brief pauses between them.
Via Yahoo Shine
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