The line that divides men from women is increasingly blurred. After the numerous achievements of the feminist movement, can women feel like an active part of society, with free? or almost free? participation in various fields, whether academic, professional, political or even economic. Although there are still many taboos to be broken, it can already be said that men and women are increasingly alike.
And this does not apply only to official matters; The fact is that both sexes today already have? permission? to cross certain boundaries and break certain paradigms that historically used to govern relations between them. So check out six myths about men and women left behind? and make sure you are not yourself an agent of veiled machismo.
1 ? Women don't pay the bill
In the old days, when it was unusual for women to work, was it acceptable and even logical for only men to pay the costs? from the house, the restaurant or the clothes. But times have changed, and today this maxim cannot be taken so seriously. Splitting the bill or even paying it in full once in a while demonstrates partnership and companionship.
2 ? Men don't help with housework
Once again, a paradigm of historical character. When the women did not work abroad, they took care of all household chores while their husbands went to work. However, with the change in behavior that comes from women's work, men need to understand that household chores are the responsibility of both.
3? Women take care to impress men
If you are a woman, you know how wrong that statement is. Women take care of themselves because they like to feel beautiful, elegant or trendy. Feminine life is not just about pleasing the opposite sex, as it was a few years ago, and the modern woman is more concerned with getting well with herself.
4? Men are afraid of commitment
Many women may agree with this phrase just to justify the footsteps of one or another man they have met. The truth is, there are men who want to find the right woman to commit to, just as there are men who want no more than one night with you. If the guy didn't want to take anything on you, it doesn't mean he's afraid of commitment, nor does he mean he's a scumbag; It may be that you simply are not what he is looking for.
5? Women are not fun
It may be that in the not too distant past, men would prefer to remain among their own because the woman was half still, could not speak of football, cars or anything other than homework, clothes and shoes. But has this reality changed? and men know it. Just take a look at their behavior: many do not give up sharing the bar table with real friends who have the same interests as them and are capable of making any night much more fun.
6? Men always want sex no matter when, where or how
Of course, they appreciate the art of sex too much, and as research has shown, they think of it much more than women, but that doesn't mean they want sex under any circumstances. The reasoning that leads us to believe this statement is not only wrong, but also puts enormous pressure on our fellows.
If the guy doesn't want to have sex with a woman, then unnecessary comments come up that check his virility and even his sexual choice. That's not how it works, of course. When someone doesn't want to have sex with you, it can be a bad day, a bad time, you may be in an inappropriate place and, unfortunately, you may be the wrong person.
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