The act of seduction is not always an easy task. Among so many games and flirting, sometimes we don't know very well what to do, and that's very normal. It is common to be insecure and sometimes to swap feet for hands. With so many opinions coming from all sides of what to do or what they probably like, it's hard not to get confused.
There are no clear rules in flirting, each one plays their own way. But there are some repeated attitudes by women that are not well received by them, although many people think they may make sense. Some feminine tricks to attract men may actually push them farther away or make them not even interested.
Of course it all depends a lot on the intentions of both sides: If you are looking for romance, it is probably not through your body that you will succeed. If you are looking for a sexual adventure, perhaps the best way is not a philosophical debate. Here are 6 of these things that bother you more than they attract, among the most cited by men:
1. Make it hard
A game of seduction, "bite and blow", does no harm, on the contrary, warms the game and makes the flirting more stimulating. But some women still believe that it is best to do it hard, either to demonstrate security or to force the boy to work hard.
The problem is, men are not as safe as we think. They also have flirtatious insecurities and may end up giving you up because they believe you are not in the mood. Make your game but give clear clues of interest and no snob at it.
2. Makeup and overproduction
The first and most cited among men. That has to be tidy, smelling and good looking everyone already knows. The problem is when there is exaggeration. Loaded makeup, very provocative clothing, so investing too much in visual production is not a big deal with boys. Most still prefer the natural and authentic ones.
A sexy outfit may even appeal to men, but maybe some who are looking for something different from you.
3. Be easy sexually
The well-known male constant interest in sex can sometimes confuse things. Many women believe that being liberal about sex, letting go at the first opportunity, can make things easier with the cat. But this tactic has no guarantee of success.
Even with the question of making it difficult or not, the time has passed for that story that a woman who has sex on the first night is easy. You probably know couples who started this way. Ideally, let the thing roll when it seems like a good time. On the other hand, investing in sex as a way of attracting a man can backfire and you can end up attracting someone who has sex as their sole interest. Unless this is also your primary goal, don't bet on this tactic to win someone over.
4. Act like a doll
Decidedly men are not after beauty and physical perfection. Of course a beautiful body and good presentation make a lot of difference, but that doesn't mean they are looking for a model without the slightest flaws.
Don't be shy about being a flesh and blood person and not a doll. Authenticity is one of the biggest attractions either in men or women. If you are hungry, eat; if you are happy smile. If he wasn't interested in what you are, that relationship would probably be on the road to failure.
5. Always agree with him
Men like to be praised, admired and applauded for their deeds. A woman who is always warring with them or trying to humiliate them will never have a good love outcome. Show interest in your activities, give praise to tame the boy's ego, but without exaggeration.
There's nothing more boring than a woman who has no opinion and who agrees with everything they say. Put your views too, without aggression, but adding your opinion to the conversation.
6. Wait for his contact after the first date
Gone are the days of this litany of "He didn't call me the next day." Yes, we all want to be desired and valued. But always waiting for his contact may not be the best option. If a few days have passed since your last date or flirt, don't despair that he didn't like you. Often men are insecure or may just be having days too full to remember to look for you.
If you are interested in seeing him or meeting him again, invite him or at least contact him to cease his invitation.But nothing to go crazy and call the next morning or several times. It will all depend a lot on your own common sense.
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