When we are in a relationship, is it common that we end up making some slips? either by customs we learn from a lifetime or simply by not knowing how to handle certain situations.
To help you avoid some of these fatal errors that can undermine a relationship, we've listed seven of them. Thus, you can get away from these relationship saboteurs.
1 ? Don't watch every step your mate takes? think ? would you like him to do this to you? No more checking his emails or checking messages on his phone. Do you trust your partner or not?
2 ? Never tell your partner that he should have listened to you when you advised him to ask directions to someone on the street. This may sound rude and impolite. If he didn't ask anyone for help and you got lost, surely he's already blaming himself enough for that.
3? Avoid bad-mouthing him or criticizing him for your friends and relatives, this is not polite at all. We know that at the time of anger, after a fight, you will find everything in it horrible, but keep that opinion to yourself. Once the anger is gone you will see that the defects are not so terrible and criticizing them for others at that time will make you less respected and admired by these people.
4? When your partner is sad or upset about something, do not force him to talk about it. Men prefer to solve their own problems alone, reflecting in peace. Instead of insisting on the conversation, why don't you spoil him with a food or drink he loves? Maybe that will help you relax and open later with you.
5? Never expect men to guess your thinking. Don't do this and especially don't fight him because he didn't guess what you wanted when you gave that signal that you wanted something. Men understand clear requests, make no guesswork. If you want something, go ahead and tell it.
6? Do not think that a daring affection in your partner will be worth for a night of sex. If you are not in the mood, say so. But remember, it is worth a little effort to keep up the pace, as you may become unaccustomed to having sex and this is not healthy for the couple. Of course, we are not always willing, but encourage yourself to feel and give pleasure, it is good for individual and relationship health.
7? In no way try to change your partner. If he has attitudes that you sharply disapprove of, it is best to leave the relationship. But if it's just a few flaws you don't like so much, please, for no one is perfect. And remember: nobody changes anyone, he may change for a while, but soon he will act as his personality dictates.
7 Things You Must Avoid When Fighting With Your Beloved (April 2024)
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