7 Things Not to Do After a? DR?

Relationship discussions are normal, and healthy when the couple can understand and respect each other. However, certain attitudes can undermine any relationship. Know what they are:

1. Don't shrug your partner
   If you need a space after the fight, that's fine. But tell him that. Ignoring him without saying anything can get the message that you are trying to punish him, and that attitude is not at all mature. Healthy dialogue can greatly improve your complicity. Communicate.
2. No use apologizing if he's still hurt
   If there really is nothing else to do but apologize. Point out why you are sorry. Say, "I'm so sorry I did that." And in the second part of this sincere apology, say, "In the future, will I do the following?" With this small change in dialogue, you will be honestly showing that you are sorry and that you will change your attitude.
3. Make no excuses
   If you are angry, blaming it on a bad work day or headache is not the right thing to do with your partner. Tell him honestly what happened, and that day may be more irritable. This way you avoid unnecessary discussions.
4. Don't turn your back on a discussion
   DRs are usually boring, we know. But if your partner is exposing a feeling, and you turn your back, it may sound worse than the most difficult of offenses. That's because exposing your feelings is not always easy for many people. Listen respectfully to what he has to say or ask.
5. Do not lower the level
   If you want to have a minimally healthy relationship, don't trade offenses. Swearing will only make you lose respect for each other. Know how to talk at a good level, and you will understand each other more maturely. Swearing may seem like a trivial act, but for many it can be an offense hard to forget.
6. Don't have sex if you're not feeling well with him
   Many men want to have sex after DR, to feel closer, and to somehow solve the problem. But sometimes this may seem unthinkable. If you refuse, you have already forgiven him, explain that you are not in the mood, but that tomorrow, who knows? And hug, exchange other types of affection to show that refusal is not about hurt.
7. Don't blame yourself
   If you are having problems with your relationship, don't think that you were the only one to blame for it. You both have responsibility in the way you relate. Instead of wasting energy mentally punishing yourself, solve the problem in a practical way, and when both are properly understood and satisfied, try to let the fight go and get closer to your loved one.

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