What are you ashamed of when a man is around?

It is very common for a woman to feel a little embarrassed to do certain things in front of a flirt, boyfriend or husband. However, this is unnecessary. Of course a little subtlety is always welcome, but that doesn't mean you should stop doing things you always did just because a man is present.

We women as well as men have the right to have attitudes that are not always considered to be very delicate, but which are part of every day life.


When a man likes you, loves you, and admires you, isn't it human? that will make him stop admiring, loving or even wanting you. If he is really interested, this kind of thing will not push him away. That said, it is clear that it is not necessary to hide that you also take some not so feminine attitudes.

One of the things women most fear men will see is how she wakes up without makeup and messy hair, or how she is after a full day of PMS. But in general men don't mind seeing the untidy woman every once in a while and you're not required to always be perfect. So relax (but not too much, ok?).

Another thing that many women are ashamed to do in the company of a man is to eat a well-served plate of food. Well, if you can't eat in front of him, things get complicated doesn't it? No shame then. Take your plate and eat without fear.


And cry? Who never had ashamed to cry in front of him and think he would never look at you again in wonder? No need to worry about it. Men of character know that even strong women cry and have their fragile moments. After all, are men like that too? cry and suffer.

We women should not have ashamed to undress us in front of the beloved, even when we are not at our best. You can be sure that even with a few extra pounds or more, if he loves you and wants you these details will make no difference to him. Still, you can't stop taking care of yourself, can you? A little bit of dedication to make your body look good always goes well and can be a stimulus for him to do the same if he has that "beer belly".

One thing we must always have clear in our minds is that being women makes us no less human and real. We have delicate and unkind behavior, we are not always perfect and well groomed and men know it. There is no need to be ashamed. So relax and stop hiding so much from him.

What Are You Ashamed Of? (strangers answer) (April 2021)


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