What women should not do in bed

Ok, everyone has understood that sex is meant to be free, fun and spontaneous. But that doesn't mean he doesn't have some basic rules of behavior to make him really good for everyone. Certain attitudes when having sex may not go well, bordering on ridicule and making your partner very uncomfortable.

Remember that just as men can pay real tamarins at the hour, so women are not free of it.

The order is to free yourself to make sex as cool as possible. But remember that everything has a limit. Beware of certain hype or attitudes that can ruin the weather and make you pay a handsome? into bed.


If you want to be assured that this moment will be great and that it will leave a taste of? I want more ?, be aware of these advice, the most cited among men as the most common tamarins that women commit at sex:

1. Over shouting

They love moaning women and how excited they are. It's so cool that we can express the pleasure of the moment. But none of this needs to be so exaggerated. Scandalous, howling with pleasure may seem sensual, but it is more likely to scare your partner, even spoiling the mood.

Overacting, your partner may find you are faking or pushing the bar, and is very uncomfortable if other people can hear. This also applies to clichéd phrases and exaggerated profanity.


2. Total Submission

Accept whatever he suggests, expect him to make all the decisions, or make that "whatever" face. It certainly won't please the boy. Sex is the meeting of two people and so it has to be done by both. It's not funny to have sex with a woman who seems uninterested in warming up the game.

3. Stay still

When he is with you, he will certainly want you to actively participate in sex. Make no mistake: Plastic beauty is cool, but they are not looking for a doll.

Filmmaker Igor Monteiro (36) explains why it's so bad when a woman behaves this way: “There's nothing more discouraging than a woman who doesn't respond to your stimuli, or who thinks that just her being there, beautiful, smelling and hot enough, just like a male magazine photo you can play? A woman's physical activity in sex and how much fun she has with you is like a dynamo that will make the guy even more excited. Not worth feeling ashamed to react, do not repress the reaction. The more true and spontaneous, the more exciting?


4. Freshness and disgust

You can't do this, you can't do that. Nothing is more boring than having sex with those with various restrictions. Since you are going to have sex, the best option is to break free and have fun. Fluids, weird noises and sweat are normal in the sexual act and to enjoy sex you will have to live (very well) with them.

When it comes to oral sex, some women soon despair. If you disgust your mouth on your partner's penis, don't even start. It is very easy for them to realize when it is being done unwillingly. If this is your case, try to work hard to change your mind: they love oral sex and it can be great to do so too.

5. Do not warn that you are menstruating

There may even be some men (the cooler ones, we'd like) who don't like to have sex with women in those days. But even if this is not a problem for most men, they prefer not to have such surprises. So if you have your period, let him know.

It's likely (and normal) that you're a little embarrassed to talk about it. But remember that they know very well that all women go through this for their entire lives and once a month. Certain physiological issues may be intimidating, but they should be dealt with naturally. Don't be ashamed to be an ordinary human.

6. Make comparisons with other sexual partners

If you want to end your partner's hard-on just compare him with other men who have already passed in your life. Nor is it hard to understand why this happens, just imagine what it would be like for you if it were the other way around. Imagining a partner with others is not a cool image to create for a moment together.

If your intention is to compliment, you may say that you have never felt this way before, instead of saying that the many men you have had relationships with before have failed. If you want them to do something they have done before, just teach. Even comparisons that aim to increase the boy's self-esteem don't fit well, like penis size.

7. Shame and low self-esteem

You have reached the point of sex, so is he really worried about your shortcomings? Because it's an intimate moment, especially the first time between you, it's normal to be a little shy. But avoid showing this feeling. It is not a good preliminary to have to increase the girl's self-esteem or struggle to see her body.

"Really horrible is a woman with shame, who turns out the light, takes off her clothes under the blanket, keeps saying she's fat, among other details." It becomes broxing because everything is ready and the freshness begins. Seems like she wants to hear encouraging phrases like? Aren't you fat? or? you look beautiful ?, very boring ?, comments Bernardo Tavares (27), musician.

8. Insufficient Hygiene

Nor should it be necessary to speak, but in this case it is better to sin in excess. Under no circumstances have sex with compromised hygiene. Of course, in marriage or long, close relationships, it may happen at one time or another that you are not so clean, sometimes they bump even if you warn. But if you are meeting him, a recent relationship where there is no total intimacy, never allow yourself to have sex while being dirty. It's better to ask him to wait a little while while you take a quick shower than to give a bad impression of sloppiness.

9. Hair Removal Overdue

Being shaved is practically a must. You are not wrong if you do not like this obligation or prefer the natural style. But let's face it: most men really enjoy very close shaving. Legs, armpits and groin are the most important and essential. A poorly shaved first time will not necessarily ruin everything, but it is a point that can greatly influence the image it will have of you.

As said before, in longer and more intimate relationships this may not be so strict despite its importance. But if the case is a recent relationship, don't be too soft to introduce yourself to the others.

10. Shabby Lingerie

Need to say more? They love beautiful lingerie, even if they often don't even notice the rush to take off their clothes. But does he realize? And that very day there you are with a pair of pierced panties, or that beige granny-style calf. Can't, right? It is true that the purpose of sex is far beyond the quality of underwear, but we must not forget that the look is very important for all the mood of excitement.

The idea here is far from pleasing the man above all. Although the female position in sex is increasingly open and self-sufficient, the fact is that they have their preferences, and of course they are not unanimous, just routine situations cited by men. Most importantly, the pursuit of their pleasure and satisfaction remains, and in order to achieve this goal, both of them must be happy with the meeting.

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