20 tips for living together

The first step in planting a tree is to choose a nice place and know if the ground is fertile. In addition, you will need to water it daily and prune it from time to time to make the branches grow stronger.

If we compare with our relationships (marriage, friendship, family) we will realize that the type of work is the same. No matter how long the relationship has, if she runs out of water for a few days she will dry up and die. How many friends are we losing over the course of our lives simply because we don't have time?

The relationship for two is a daily work, regardless of the rain and thunder of everyday life, you need to be aware that a relationship needs to be cultivated.

In dating, the two people do not live daily and many couples for work and study only see each other on weekends, where they usually go for a walk and have fun. In addition, they are more concerned with their appearance and relatively little sight when together they are well groomed, causing interest and excitement. remain.

After marriage, there is an accumulation of functions (work, studies, home and children) and as a result, living together becomes a routine that for many becomes unbearable, causing the end of marriage.

It is true that when we are married no one gives us a handout telling us what is right or wrong, but this is no excuse and the use of common sense becomes crucial.

Let's take our work place as an example, where every morning we say? Good morning? (even if that's not our wish), we politely answer the phone and listen attentively to our superiors without interrupting them of course. In addition to being clean and properly dressed, we need to be motivated and proposed for improvement.

So why when we get home don't we make even half of that effort? Why are we tired or why isn't it worth it?

The subject is extensive and there is no rule, each couple is unique in their problems and their qualities. What may exist are some tips to help in a good relationship.

Tips for a good relationship relationship

1. Respect should be the basis of the relationship, the use of profanity and insults will only hurt the other person;
2. Create healthy habits of saying good morning, good night, how are you ?, how was your day ?;
3. Try to have meals together and enjoy talking, even better if you are away from television;
4. Kissing, hugging, holding hands and any kind of physical contact are important to the relationship and not just at sex time;
5. Do not confuse the intimacy of the relationship with too much information, such as using the bathroom with the door open, releasing gas in front of the other person, belching, etc. Over time the sexual interest decreases;
6. Hygienic habits are fundamental to the couple's sex life;
7. Take care of the appearance, is it unbelievable the transformation that men and women make after separation, why can't it be done before it happens?
8. The moment the relationship? Cools down? Look for alternatives, one option is a visit to a sexy shop;
9. Have a sense of humor
10. Don't let the relationship fall into the loop, enjoy the group shopping sites that offer cheap theater, dining and travel options;
11. Accept the fact that you do not have the same opinions and therefore conflicts will exist;
12. Have friends;
13. Married does not mean stuck, have activities outside of marriage;
14. Gifts and kindnesses need not be dated;
15. Make plans;
16. Know each other's needs;
17. Acknowledge mistakes and apologize;
18. Set aside time just for both of you;
19. Respect each other's family and friends;
20. Talk about what bothers you and don't let heartache accumulate.

As I said, these are just some of the tips for living together. Each couple must find their balance, and this only becomes capable through dialogue and respect. In the most worrying cases, seek help from a professional.

Good luck.

Moving in Together | Relationship Advice (April 2024)