The wedding ceremony is a special moment in most women's lives. After spending years and years dreaming of the day when you would dress as a bride and have all your attention turned to you, when the big day comes it's time to enjoy the joys and emotions that only marriage can offer.
All set, it's time to listen to the music and follow your love with measured steps and rest assured that things will turn out as they were thoroughly planned and rehearsed, right? Not so much ? There are always details out of control, even when it comes to the most meticulous of brides.
1 ? The alliance may not serve
Of course you tried the rings before you got to the altar, of course this test was done a zillion times and of course this is not a problem you thought of. It turns out that the nervousness of the moment and the heat provoked by this emotional stress can cause your fingers? or the groom's? swell, which prevents the alliance from entering. To circumvent the unforeseen, the only solution is to try to put it nicely. If the hand is hydrated, it will work better.
2 ? Last minute drawbacks no longer matter
First because there is nothing you can do to avoid them and second because you realize that no matter how much you prepare everything before, there will always be something to go wrong.
3? Big inconveniences happen? and continue to matter
Problems with the buffet, dinner time, photos and video will really bother you and cannot be avoided. It is normal for these major inconveniences to occur, but being aware of them will not prevent you from feeling bad about them.
4? No one will tell the truth about these drawbacks
People don't want you to worry even more about the things that went wrong, so they'll pretend it's okay and don't realize if anything was unexpected. Deep down, do you know they bothered? although less than you? but kindly they will make a point of lying about it, saying that everything was perfect.
5? You may not be able to sleep on your wedding night
And believe me, this has nothing to do with a fantastic night of love without breaks? that may indeed happen - but with the tension and nervousness that has accumulated until that moment. At the end of the ceremony and party, sleep may not be a simple task, as you and your husband will probably be exhausted, but still in the frenetic pace of the night.
6? After the big day you'll miss having so many things to do.
Because the months before marriage are so exhausting, full of the preparations and decisions needed to make everything go smoothly, you may feel a great emptiness after the big day is over. No more worrying about the details of the ceremony and party can be? who would say ? a problem for you.
7? You just won't have all the photos you would like
Regardless of the number of photographers hired, what happens is that you will not remember to take all the photos you would like. So that important people and moments don't end up unregistered, pre-list what you want to photograph. This minimizes your later regret.
8? Spending doesn't end when the party is over
Even though you have left everything? paid before you go to church, there will always be later contests to hit. It may be that the buffet covers for broken objects during the party, it may be that your photography package does not include all the revelations you want, it may be that spending during the honeymoon gets a little out of control. Whatever the reason, and as it cannot be predicted, always have a small financial reserve for such postmarital situations.
Despite these negatives, nothing should stop you from enjoying the party. Mistakes and unforeseen happen in any situation, so try to relax and enjoy the big day.
WHAT NO ONE TELLS YOU ABOUT GETTING MARRIED (May 2024)
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