In 1973 a book called "My Secret Garden" by Nancy Friday revealed the main sexual fantasies of women at the time. But a lot has changed since then. Now, 40 years after this publication, author Emily Dubberley has released the book Garden of Desires: The Evolution of Women's Sexual Fantasies.
"I wanted to draw attention to women's fantasies," said the author. The publication talks about the transformations in women's sexuality in recent decades and lists the top five female sexual desires.
- Submissive
- Dominant
- Exhibitionism and voyeurism
- Group
Costumes of this nature can range from simply being tied up in bed during intercourse to props such as whips, handcuffs, gags, among others. In some cases women go further.
That's when the roles are reversed and the man becomes submissive and the woman takes control in bed. The book reveals that this kind of fantasy is very popular and desired by almost 1/3 of the people.
The idea is to have sex in places where the couple can be seen or even caught in the act, such as in the garden, on the plane, in a park, in shops, at work, or at home with the window open. Women talk in the book not only about the thrill of knowing they are being watched, but also about the eroticism of watching other people having sex.
Many women like this practice. For the couple, it is a way of bringing something new and different into the relationship, whether it is same-sex, opposite-sex, or another couple.
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