12 Sex Facts You Should Never Feel Bad About

Have you ever been nervous about not wanting to do something your partner really wanted you to do? Have you ever felt ashamed of your own body? Already stopped having sex for not being shaved? You are not alone, but that needs to change.

Read the list below for 12 facts about sex you should never feel bad about, and realize that you don't have to worry or be ashamed of any of these things. Sex means intimacy and pleasure and should not be a taboo!

1. Your naked body

The first thing on the list is undoubtedly the most important: You don't have to feel insecure or uncomfortable with your own body. Many women are ashamed to have sex with the light on or even take off their shirt to have sex and that is not fair to themselves! It's not worth having sex with someone who doesn't think your body is beautiful just the way it is.

2. Not wanting to do something that? Every girl does?

It's not because his ex was a juggler in sex that you need to be too! Maybe he had sex with daring girls in bed or just seen some crazy porn stuff, but it doesn't matter, you should only do what makes you comfortable and what you feel like doing.

3. Guarantee an orgasm for you too

Reciprocity must always be present in a moment of intimacy like sex and the rule is simple: if he will come, you must come too. You shouldn't feel bad about wanting him to give you as much pleasure as you are willing to give him.

4. Give tips to your partner

If your partner is a smart person, you should know that there are always new things to learn when it comes to satisfying a woman, so it won't get you wrong if you guide them through the relationship. After all, if he's doing things that don't please you, it's a waste of time, right?

5. Want to have sex in your menstrual period

For many women, being menstruating means greater arousal and a desire to have sex and that is why the effort is worth it. Whether in the bath or simply using a towel over the sheet, you and your partner can have a blissful time during this time.

6. Wanting to use objects to make things more interesting

To make sex even better, you may want to use a vibrator, lubricant, different types of condoms or erotic toys and that's fine! You need not be ashamed of your desires and man should not feel insufficient if you want to use some of these items.

7. Vaginal Fist

Sometimes, with penetration, your vagina may make some strange noises that resemble the sound of farting. If this happens, remember: it's not really fart, it's a supernormal thing, it can happen to anyone, and there's no reason to be ashamed.

8. Not being shaved

You are under no obligation to be shaved 100% of the time. Maybe you didn't know your night was going to end in sex or maybe you just didn't feel like shaving and that's not a problem. It's just hair!

9. If he broaches

It happens. And it's not your fault. For various reasons, a man may not be able to perform well in sex and you need not feel bad about it. Usually you, your body or your attitudes have nothing to do with the situation.

10. Being in a granny panty

You can't combine panties and bra every day! Much less wear only thong lace panties, right? So, don't worry if every now and then you are wearing those bigger and older knit panties.

11. Feeling uncomfortable in bed

It may be your first time or you may have lost your virginity for years, the fact is that you will not always be completely comfortable in sex. Sometimes you will feel kinda weird with the situation and have no problem. Just remember: no doing something you don't want to do.

12. Not wanting to have sex

If you are not in the mood for any reason, do not feel obligated to have sex with your partner. You may be in pain, cramping, angry, sad or tired and the other person must respect that!

Moments of intimacy between a couple should be full of confidence and pleasure, so leave your paranoia aside and enjoy without worrying about these little details.

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