The breakup of a relationship is never easy. Skin-deep emotions, memories that insist on staying, and the threat of the need to live life with no one to share the good and the bad times.
Relearning to live without someone by your side can be time consuming, as can the time it takes to heal wounds. But with positive thoughts, friends and family around, getting back to your single life can be fun and restorative.
There are some factors that help in overcoming a breakup, such as keeping friends close, meeting new people, and trying to look at the ups and downs of the broken relationship, trying to mature with mistakes and successes.
Although it all sounds awful right now, there are annoying things and situations that you won't miss in a relationship. Understanding which ones are can help you heal your broken heart faster. Check out some things no one misses in a relationship:
1. To have to satisfy all the time
If I want to watch shows until 3 am I don't need to explain this to anyone, I just watch.
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2. Having to fight to get what you want
No more arguments or shouts. You can buy the 31 bottles of nail polish you want without having to argue tirelessly for it.
3. Having to pretend to like the look chosen by the boy
That he was no fashion genius you already knew, but now you can go easy without being ashamed of the clothes he wore.
4. Having to sleep in the night because of his snoring
Goodbye nights of deafening noise, hello quiet nights.
5. Having to socialize with your boring friends
You thought he was special until he was among your boring, clueless friends. Well, now you won't have to take them anymore.
6. To always have to be shaved
You never know when a romantic night might end in something else, so waxing always needed to be up to date. Now you no longer have this concern. Welcome hairy legs on cold days!
7. To have to swallow frogs? to maintain the relationship
No more suffering and tears shed in the silence and loneliness of your room. You no longer have to hide your hurts to have a "stable" relationship.
8. Having to explain why that pair of high heels is worth the investment
Men don't understand our love for shoes, and explaining the investment we were making was exhausting. Now you can go shopping without anyone judging you.
9. To have to ignore when flirting
No use, the flirting had been going on before the break, but you ignored them with respect to your partner. Now enjoy the singleness and play in the blame-free flirting game.
10. To have to set aside friends to devote to him
Yes. Unfortunately, when we date friendships, they are in the background. Now that you don't have to pay attention to him, enjoy the company of his friends, go out in groups and do a lot of girls' shows.
11. Having to explain why you missed your diet
Besides making you feel super guilty, every time you boycotted the diet he complained and made you feel even worse. Enjoy now that you're single and eat without blame. After all, a little slip doesn't hurt anyone.
12. Having to cancel yourself to make it work
How many times have you failed to do what you liked or wanted to make him happier? Take this time to love yourself and know yourself, giving in to your own whims.
By focusing on the good things a breakup can offer, recovering and moving on becomes even easier. Enjoy this new phase, meet your wishes and do everything you ever wanted and couldn't. Throw yourself!
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