The months leading up to a wedding ceremony may seem like ordinary months for the guests, the bride and groom's parents, and often even the groom. However, while the other mortals slowly count down to the 'yes', the poor bride gets lost amid the dress and candy trials, the menu decision, the choice of songs and beauty salon, the contract with the photographer and the party venue, 'all at the same time now'.
Is it possible to relax before the long awaited day? Is it possible to set aside all this responsibility and simply enjoy the moment, even if only on the wedding date? What to do to reach a stage near tranquility?
Why does the bride feel so overwhelmed?
In general, the bride and groom do not make all the marriage decisions together or, if so, the information is already coming to the bridegroom rather than chewed, just for the final hammering and appreciation. This is because the bride usually willingly and unconsciously sets out to run after herself.
Maybe because you don't trust your loved one's organizing skills, maybe because you want to leave your mark on every detail, maybe just because women have the habit of thinking they can handle everything. The fact is that most of the responsibility actually falls on the female portion of the couple. The bridegroom remains to attend the day and time scheduled.
Is it possible to relax?
Tayara Carminati, 24, married a little over a month ago, laughs just before answering the question. ? Actually I tried, but it was not possible? ? she explains that things were happening so fast that sometimes she didn't even realize how stressed she was about everything. “I went to relax in the salon three hours before the wedding, doing foot, hand, hair and makeup. I tried before, but no way?
What kind of beauty ritual should be performed just before the big day?
In fact, there is no specially developed ritual for brides. You must understand that, above that, you are a human being who still has the same characteristics you had before you became "the bride." Consult a nutritionist and try to eat properly. Other details, such as skin and hair, need to be addressed over time in the months preceding the ceremony. Trusted professionals can do it for you.
Tayara, in turn, developed a strange allergy to chicken meat a few months before the wedding. Her lips simply began to swell every time she ate that kind of meat. Beauty rituals, therefore, were designed primarily to avoid this setback: "The only thing I was taking was my allergy pill, otherwise I would have a swollen mouth," he recalls.
When asked about food and beauty products, she says she changed the routine a bit. "I closed my mouth and rubbed a manipulated cream on my face to control the pH of my skin, but otherwise, nothing much."
Real Tips To Prepare
If your wedding date is fast approaching and you are unsure what to do to get it at your best, Tayara ensures the wisest decision is not to lose control. “First, you have to try to stay calm, even though it's almost impossible,” he says, stressing the importance of having help, “hire an aide, at least for the [wedding] day. It's very important?.
For the wedding day, the main tip is not to worry anymore, she said. "On the last day try to relax, adrenaline consumes us and we do not even realize much stress around us," he says, "but the other day is tense?" tiredness to the skin ?. So make the necessary decisions, but don't despair. There is no better beauty tip for a bride than learning to deal with her own emotions.
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