A relationship based on Are you free today? ?Yes!? ?So let's go?: this is the colorful friendship, that old? partnership? where you and a friend decide to have sporadic sex without any other commitment.
If you have nothing better to do, sex is good and both are happy with the situation, wonderful! However, to prevent one of you from starting to confuse things and be greatly disappointed, it is important to follow a few tips:
1. Be honest with the? Friend? and with yourself
For a colorful friendship to work without anyone being hurt, you need to be honest about your feelings. If you want nothing more than a few nights, this needs to be clear. Similarly, if your expectations change, should you also be honest with your friend and yourself? deceiving yourself is never a good deal.
2. Make sure you know how to separate sex and love.
Many people, whether men or women, associate sex with an emotional connection, and this is not necessarily wrong. However, entering into a colorful friendship without being able to separate things will surely result in much hurt in the near future. Before embarking on this, make sure you are emotionally mature enough to understand that this is a? Relationship? only physical.
3. Talk about your preferences between four walls
A colorful friendship means that you have a partner with whom you have sex without loving involvement and commitment, right? Thus, if sex is not satisfactory, this friendship loses its meaning; Therefore, you must be clear about your preferences for these times.
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4. Escape the slouch
It's okay that you already have a good intimacy with your colorful friend, but that doesn't mean it's appropriate to appear on a half-bath date. Likewise, you also deserve to relate only to people who care about hygiene.
5. Require condom use
If even a marriage is no guarantee of monogamy, imagine a colorful friendship! As much as you trust your colorful friend's judgment as to who else he relates to, many STDs are invisible, especially in the beginning. Therefore, the condom is indispensable.
6. Keep your colorful friend secret?
If your family and friends (the? Normals?) Do not yet know your colorful friend, it is best to leave things as they are. After all, they will soon realize that you are always meeting this person and may start asking indiscreet questions about your relationship.
7. Avoid sleeping at your colorful friend's house and vice versa
After the meeting, the best thing to do is to each go home. Spending the night together is a very intimate thing that can pose a serious risk for you to mix things up and get emotionally involved.
8. Don't Sleep
Even worse than spending all night together is you spooning. It is very clear that colorful friendship is all about sex, and although there is (a lot!) Physical contact, such caresses can spark an emotional connection that neither of you want.
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9. Don't wait and practice dating habits
So that you can enjoy a colorful friendship without anyone getting hurt, you should not expect or practice typical dating attitudes. Special dinners, gifts and cute surprises should not be part of this kind of relationship. Remember that this is just casual sex and nothing more.
10. Avoid any kind of? Territory marking?
Leaving a toothbrush or a change of clothes at your friend's colorful house (or accepting that he leaves it in yours) is quite out of the way of this kind of relationship. Similarly, there should be no charges between you for attention or frequency of encounters. If either cannot or is not in the mood for that day, ball forward!
11. Stay open for new relationships.
Is closing your eyes and heart to other relationships while you are in a colorful friendship not a good idea? especially if you would like to have a partner for a more serious appointment. Enjoy the good times with your colorful friend, but be sure to watch the world around you.
12. Do not feel betrayed if he meets someone else
There is no compromise between you, so you should not feel betrayed if your colorful friend is interested in someone else.Likewise, it's inadmissible for him to be bored or annoyed because you have an active profile on Tinder, added someone on Facebook or have other colorful friendships.
But what if even if you follow all this you find that you would like to have something other than sex? In that case, you have to be honest: if your colorful friend feels the same way, you might be able to invest a little more in this relationship. Otherwise, keep in mind that the deal between you was just having casual relationships, so it is best to walk away so you don't hurt yourself further.
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