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April 28, 2024
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Erotic Massage: Learn How To Get A Stimulating Massage

Massage is already pleasant and comforting when done in the conventional way, but when it has a more intimate and sexual purpose, it can be a bonus to spice up the relationship and strengthen the ties between the couple.

There are various types of erotic massage, such as tantric massage for example, but all seek pleasure and preliminary relaxation to sex, with precisely sensual movements, ideal for this purpose.

Here's tips on everything you need to know to learn how to do erotic massage and spice up the relationship.

How to have an erotic massage?

Before starting the erotic massage you have to plan for all the details to be perfect, after all keeping the atmosphere engaging and seductive from beginning to end is essential for unforgettable moments.

Fatima Moura, sex coach, creator of Lingerie Tea and pioneer in Brazil in courses and lectures in the area of sex and sensuality, recalls that it is important to keep in mind that the purpose of this type of massage is to excite and not relax, and she is a intense energy exchange, it is important to note that you should only perform it when you are feeling very well.

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If you are on a more or less day, leave it for another time.

Another important tip from Fatima is not to interrupt the contact as soon as you touch the partner, not to cut off the power exchange.

Erotic massage step by step

Lie the person to be massaged with the back on the comforter;
Kneel between her legs, put some of the oil in your hands and gently slide them together to warm them. Then bring your hands close to your partner's body;
Begin by moving up the outside of the legs in a circular motion to the knees, and return with the hands inside, without forgetting the feet;
Raise your hands to the thigh to the groin (without touching the penis / vagina), always rising outside and coming back inside;
Follow with the massage, with the same circular movements, in the chest and arms;
Drip a little of the drink on his body and lick gently. Caress the face, hair and enjoy the fruits that are separated. Use the imagination;
Pour some oil on your breasts (or chest) and massage the other with your body.
As you slide your hands over his / her body, kiss the breasts (or chest), the belly and continue lowering the lips until you reach the pelvic area.
Finish the massage by starting an oral sex calmly and gently and abusing sensual movements with the tongue.
As you feel your partner's arousal rising, it's time to enjoy the benefits of massage by turning the hot foreplay into a long, pleasurable sex, with the energy vibrating overhead.

Although erotic massage has the same structure for him and her, men and women have different erogenous zones and arousal can be enhanced when these distinctions are taken into account. Here are some special tips for raising the level of your massage and increasing the pleasure between you and your partner.

Man Massage: Special Tips

Start the foot massage, sitting between your partner's legs that should be lying looking at you. Position one of his feet over her breast and massage his fingertips until his hands slide smoothly down the inside of his leg to his groin without touching his penis.
Then sit on his lap and make him sit down so that they are both facing each other. Wrap your legs around his hips and with the help of a moisturizing candle or edible oil massage his chest in intense circular motions.
To increase excitement, keep up with a dressing gown or any other garment that you can keep slightly ajar, further teasing your partner. Sit in the Indian position, cross-legged, and lay your partner's head on them so that you can make eye contact and his vision is your partially revealed breasts and your face. This is a great time to offer fruit or any other element to sharpen your taste buds. Then move your hands down your chest or legs, still without touching the penis, so that your breasts touch his face.
Using edible oil is a simple way to increase pleasure. Apply to partner's abdomen or any other region and then remove with tongue.
Do not be afraid to have fun with accessories. Feathers, special candles and gels can be used to drive your partner crazy with little touches and movements.
With your partner lying face down, apply massage gel or cream to your breasts and back and alternate with your hands and body.
Enjoy the special oils for the intimate region and finish by massaging your partner's penis with gentle but intense movements.

Massage in women: tips to hit the touch

Begin with your partner's back, sitting on your hip, apply oil all over your spine, and massage with circular motions, up your arms and down to the base of your spine.
Sit lower on your partner's calf or thigh and enjoy massaging her buttocks and lowering your movements to her inner legs.
Then turn your partner so that she is lying on her back, massaging with circular movements from the belly to the breasts, kissing and caressing the nipples at the end.
With your partner lying in the previous position, take one of your legs and massage your feet to your thighs and then repeat the process with your tongue, and may even end with an oral sex from then on.
Position yourself between her thighs and begin massaging her inner legs until she reaches her hips. Use your fingers to play with your partner's large lips until you reach her clit while your other hand massages her breasts.

Bath massage step by step

Start by setting the mood. Rose petals, incense sticks and aromatic candles will give the bathroom a romantic and seductive mood.
If you have a bathtub, prepare a bath with oils and salts that help arouse your sense of smell. If not, no problem. Invest in soft sponges and creamy foams to lather your partner.
Strategically position fruit and some drink near the box to use during the massage. Put the water at a pleasant temperature, put on some sensual music and start taking off your partner's clothes.
Unbutton your clothes calmly and enjoy stroking the revealing body parts as you follow the rhythm of the music.
Spread foam over his / her body from head to toe with the help of the sponge. Enjoy to use the fruit or drink at this time.
Run your hands over his body and then use a sponge to lather his whole body. When you get to the intimate parts, stay a little longer for more pleasure.
With your hands remove the foam from his body and dry him with a soft towel. With the air of seduction in the air, enjoy letting your imagination flow to whatever comes your way.

Accessories and products to use the imagination

Be inspired by our product selection to make your moments of intimacy and pleasure even more exciting.

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Scented Candle Intt for R $ 49, 90 at Pleasure Store

Edible Sensual Kit for R $ 32,90 at Hot Pepper Sex Shop

Tok Shock Grape Liquid Vibrator for R $ 15,20 at Erosmania

Aphrodisiac Scented Petals for R $ 14,16 at Milli

Iced Acai Flavor with Guarana for R $ 12,90 at Hidden Desire

Seductive Feather for R $ 119,90 at Hot Pepper Sex Shop

No erotic massage will be complete unless you invest in special products and accessories for the occasion. You can find everything on the market today, so sharpen your imagination by browsing the sex shops. You will always find some surprise.

Secrets to spice up erotic massage

The sex coach Fatima Moura explains that a wide variety of touches can be used during the massage. You can use your hands, body and a multitude of accessories. Fatima also recalls that before starting the massage, there is a whole preparation that must be performed. From the moment you choose where you will perform it, you must prepare the environment to awaken the 5 senses. Check out other secrets you need to know to spice up the massage.

Lay a comforter on the floor and some rose petals (remember to use artificial petals to avoid the risk of staining);
Surround the place where the person being massaged will lie down with pillows to maintain the cozy atmosphere. Also place a pillow for the headrest so that the person can see it while massaging it;
Put some candles flavored by the place (be the bedroom, living room, etc);
Have at your fingertips during the massage, a tray with some red fruits and glasses with a noble drink (white wine, champagne, liquor, etc.) to sharpen the taste;
In sensual or erotic massage, there is not a single point or just a few that should receive attention; The whole body should be massaged.
Choose a light music, new age style. It will create a mood to engage the couple.
Be sure to creatively use the accessories and products that are there to make the game more fun. Oils, candles that melt but do not burn, edible creams, feathers, erotic dice and other items can make everything more interesting.
Put more oil on your hands whenever necessary, but always keeping one hand on the person's body.To put the oil, turn your palms up, keeping the back of your hand in contact with the other's skin.

3 videos to learn and become expert on the subject

Remember to enjoy the moment and enjoy. Fatima Moura suggests following her instincts and not worrying about forgetting something, just surrendering. Massage has time to start, but not to end. See more ideas you can enjoy for two:

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Although still seen as taboo in our society, the prostate is a strong male erogenous zone. In this video teacher Regina Racco talks about the massage located in this region and how the couple should proceed.

Tantric Massage, by Hayato Tatsuo

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Use all the techniques combined with your imagination to strengthen the bonds between you and the person you love. Erotic massage is more than a way of relaxing your partner, it is also a way of showing affection, love and interest, keeping the flame of passion in your relationship for longer.