Love is over, but being together can be a good alternative.

I believe this topic should alarm some people? how do you live by appearances? Nothing worse in life than not assuming who we are, or even living a relationship that does not exist, but have you ever thought that in some situations living a relationship of friendship and companionship can be a healthy and assertive exit?

Surely you know some couple next to you who no longer love each other, in a relationship that the passion is over and continue together, and we do not understand why they do not separate. This is because we have a behavior of evaluating within our own criteria what should be right and what would be wrong. Of course we have been brought up to be that way, where we make hasty assessments of just about everything we see around us.

Do the test

I would like to invite you to a little joke, this is: Put a camera in front of you, look at it, pay attention to all the details, after a few minutes turn the camera sideways, and look at the details again from the camera, look the other way again until you look at all sides of the camera.

Now write on paper what you saw on each side, and you will find that each side has unique details that make it different from the whole.

What did this experience show us? What does this have to do with a marriage, the behavior of someone we know? We can see that the situations in our lives have many aspects, and most of the time we misjudge the situations we experience, because like the camera, everything in our life has many sides, or rather, several aspects to be evaluated. .

This experience is of the utmost importance in order not to go wrong in assessing the situations around us, and when we think of a couple who live together and choose not to separate, they certainly made that decision on aspects they deemed relevant to harmony. of the family. I do not speak here of a degraded relationship, I speak of couples who have lost their passion and who choose to live under the same roof.

There are many situations to be evaluated from harmony of family, children, the financial area, friends, etc. Many couples build beyond passion a relationship of respect, friendship, complicity to continue to live under the same roof, without making them less happy.

Can we look at it from the outside, or even bring it to our relationship? Many marriages end up failing to look at the various aspects that involve the couple, many rebuild their lives successfully, more friendly partners, passion, but a large portion of the marriages that end up the partners involved can not cope with loneliness, lack of companionship in the division of tasks, the lack of commitment to the pension, and so we can raise numerous possibilities that happen in the separation.

In time, I suggest that each couple should evaluate their relationship, ascertain the strengths and weaknesses of being together or not, and even look for ways to reinvent love, seek complicity, and thus make a decision that is appropriate for their partners and children. involved.

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