Have you ever watched a porn movie? There are those who are loyal viewers, those who have watched once in a while and others who have never watched either. The point is that what can be very exciting for some is uncomfortable and even embarrassing for others. There's nothing weird about not having an interest in watching sex movies.
By messing with sexual intimacy so much, porn movies can shock. It is important to remember that these films are works of fiction like any other and follow scripts that are staged by actors.
Men are more likely to assume that watching porn is part of their daily lives, as is taking over masturbation. Sexologist Valeria Walfrido explains that "according to the opinions of many participants in our workshops, lectures and sessions, men cite that the porn movie helps to warm the mood in bed."
But for women, as is often the case when it comes to female sexuality, publicly assuming that you watch porn movies, even just for friends or your boyfriend, can be a big taboo. Society has not yet gotten used to women who enjoy sex, especially those who watch a porn movie on their own.
There are porn movies and erotic movies, they are different categories. In the erotic movie, there are sex and exciting situations, but it also brings a plot and more elaborate plots than a porn movie. In porn sex is the main theme, when there is a story it will always have sex as its purpose, with close ups and a lot of variety.
The problem with pornography can be a shock of reality. Anyone who has had sexual experience knows that what we see in movies is not what happens in real life sex. In porn, characters are generally willing to engage in any sexual modality without emotional involvement, which, except perhaps with sex workers, does not correspond to a common relationship.
The pros and cons of the porn movie
Watching porn movies alone can ensure good fun, bring new ideas, release old restrictions and make you more excited for sex. Many couples also take advantage of this mode of cinema to warm up the relationship and get inspired by news.
Clinical relationship psychologist Pâmela Magalhães comments that “watching pornography with your partner can be positive as long as you both stick to the proposal and have fun with it. Otherwise, can it be stressful and distressing for one party to feel uncomfortable with the joke?
On the other hand, this kind of movie can create problems for a couple. Unsurprisingly, many young people get addicted to watching porn movies, usually something that happens at puberty. But adults can also become addicted, reaching a stage where they depend on them for arousal. The sexologist Valeria Walfrido points out this problem, more common than we imagine: Watching porn is valid when it is just another complement to warm up the relationship, so that it does not fall into routine. But there are cases where such films stop helping and start to disturb the relationship, when the couple or one partner can only stimulate, or even have an erection, watching them ?.
In addition to being addictive, pornography poses another risk to sexual health. What we see in the movies may end up influencing our way of imagining is the ideal sex. Valéria Walfrido adds: The porn movie is nothing more than a performance. In the film, usually are shown large penises, orgasmic screams, sexual positions often unusual, aiming to arouse curiosity, increase libido and obviously stimulate greater acquisition of them ?.
The influence of these films can be troublesome when we begin to make comparisons, confusing reality with fiction, such as large penises embarrassing partners with not-so-large limbs or engaging in anal sex with violence, expecting the partner to respond as she should. the actress with screams and scandalous enjoyments even feeling uncomfortable ?, explains the expert.
The interesting thing is to enjoy the movies in the best way and play at balancing the real and the imaginary.
How to spice up the relationship with porn movies?
Most pornographic films are aimed at male pleasure, precisely because it is the largest consumer audience. Therefore, to pursue female arousal, it is worth researching films that contain more plot and exciting situations and preferably target the female pubic. This is not to say that it will not be interesting to your partner, but that the movie will feature scenes where female pleasure is also focused.
Enjoy a spicy movie to break new ground during sex and unleash your fantasies. Watching a porn for two can make the weather much warmer. Take the opportunity to show your partner any scenes you would like to try.
Most importantly, it is in their interest. When one party doesn't like the idea, it can end up being very harmful.
In sex anything goes for pleasure. So how about breaking the taboos of porn for two? It's worth trying.
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