Do you look at the phone, which is distressingly dumb? and so it will remain for the rest of the day. What woman never expected a phone call that didn't come the day after a date that seemed perfect, right?
So that this does not happen again, it is not necessary to despair. It may be that simple attitudes will give you a different outcome the next time you meet a nice guy.
1 ? Be spontaneous
It's no use making the quiet line if you're not like that. The same goes for anyone who wants to look outgoing. Be yourself instead of forcing a character that doesn't really exist just to try to please.
2 ? Do not exaggerate
The advice applies to the most diverse situations. Don't overdo it: it says a lot about who you are and what you expect from the date. Don't overdo the jokes, because your conversation can get boring. Don't overdo the drink in the first place not to do things you will regret later, and secondly not to risk embarrassment on the first day. You can drink, but don't go overboard. Alcohol does act as a social lubricant, but when used without moderation can wreak havoc.
3? Be provocative just right
Not too much mystery, not too explicit attacks. In fact, the best thing at these times is to follow the flow. Of course, the famous question about sex on the first date hits, but love is not an exact science. Not having sex with the guy doesn't always guarantee another day's phone call. Have a good time. That is, it is better to do what you think is right at that moment and get discouraged. For the insecure, implying that you have an interest is enough. Do this through subtle physical contact and well-studied eyes.
4? Take it easy
Avoid talking about your psychological problems and traumas you have been through. The boy is not your therapist and you risk scaring him if you get into very dense topics. Talk about movies, music, and other things that keep the conversation loose and easy.
5? Try not to look desperate
Yes, you may have been without a boyfriend for a long time. Yes, it may be that all your friends are getting married and you are feeling the last of the mortals. Yes, it's possible that you and the guy sitting across the table will date, get married, and build a beautiful family together. Just don't let the boy realize that in your head you are already aging side by side. This kind of attitude shows that you are an anxious person who is "coming up with what comes up." Men run away from creatures like that, so go slow.
6? Show interest
Yes, you need to show interest without looking desperate. Difficult? Not so much, just be nice and have a sense of humor, lowering your guard slightly. If you keep your face shut, the guy will think you didn't like the date and naturally hesitate to call you.
7? Leave space
Don't talk uninterrupted, let the cat respond and share opinions as well. Talking too much and too fast gives the impression of anxiety, as well as being impolite.
8? Show yourself independent
Split the account. There is no problem with that and, by the way, you make it clear that you are not looking for someone to finance you.
9? Don't talk about your ex
Please, just don't talk. It's very unpleasant to hear about the past on the first date. Also, the guy may think you still think about your ex-loves. Avoid, at least at first, unless he asks you about it.
10? Don't talk about his ex
Don't speculate about his previous relationships. It's boring, unnecessary and makes you look like an FBI investigator.
Golden tip
Even taking all these previous attitudes, it is possible that the boy will not call you the next day. That's because men are human beings too: He may not be interested in getting involved now, he may not have liked the meeting as you did, he may not think it is worth it, or simply too lazy to take it forward. So the final tip is: relax. Your enchanted prince will show up at the right time, and until then, try to have fun instead of warming your head with every man who doesn't care about you.
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