Throughout life, we go through times when our behavior in the face of various aspects must be analyzed. These questions are part of our nature and especially our journey towards happiness. No one wants to be dragged through life and lose control of what is or prioritizes. Therefore, some questions become important so that we know exactly if we are following the path we intended.
This is a process of improvement, which comes with maturation. Whether our choices are right or wrong, they serve to teach us for the next occasion. One of the good things in life is that it can always be restarted. But settling certain important issues can help make your path more efficient and less likely to have unpleasant surprises.
The lifelong feminine questions are endless. The first step is to be able to reason calmly and intelligently. Emotional and rational must be balanced without ever just deciding alone. Here are twelve of the biggest questions that accompany contemporary women and are essential for self-knowledge.
1. Am I following a path that makes me happy?
One way or another, everyone knows more or less what they like in life. If you like having friends, living in nature or in the city, being successful at work? It turns out that during our walk we can get lost or follow directions that were not quite what we intended. This is common in rush and day to day obligations.
That is why it is important sometimes to stop to ponder how much we are deciding in our lives against how much we are letting events decide for us.
2. Am I a person who makes a difference in my community?
Living in society, each individual has their rights and duties, which defines them as true citizens. And citizenship is far beyond simply paying bills and respecting traffic laws. Their participation in encouraging good things for their community is very important for everyone's quality of life.
Taking part in your street, building or neighborhood issues and supporting green movements, such as selective collection and other beneficial issues, will make you a dear and protected person, as well as someone who inspires good attitudes.
3. Do I repay the kindness I receive?
Many times we are so busy with other problems that we do not notice the gentle movements we receive. When a person is educated, he or she expects a reciprocal attitude and this response can be decisive for maintaining the other person's good behavior.
Therefore we should always repay the kindness and help we have received as a way of gratitude and creating a cycle of collaboration. Have you given the attention you should to the good deeds you receive?
4. Do I want to have children or not?
We live in a time when such questioning is possible and very common. With the advancement of medicine and women's greater interest in matters beyond family, we can be free to choose whether or not we want to be mothers. Although this is still the most common dream among women, many have preferred to pursue other issues before planning for motherhood.
According to psychologist Pâmela Magalhães, although there is a strong cultural and social pressure that women should constitute a home and family with children, the female behavior in face of this question has been changing:? allowing oneself to decline the role of mother or even to delay motherhood to a more opportune moment, respecting another priority ?.
5. Do I take care of my body as it should?
Whether you are young or mature, the body always needs some attention. This is not about being beautiful or slender, but about your health. Age is relentless, we will grow old and the best we can do is prepare for it. Healthy eating, a minimum of exercise and a peaceful heart are enough to keep the body normally healthy.
The problem is that with the daily rush we end up leaving these important factors later, and sometimes never again. Are you satisfied with the way you take care of your body? The time for this change is now!
6. Am I in the profession I like?
At an early age, when we finish basic education, or sooner out of necessity, pressure begins to choose which career path to pursue. Charging from all sides, beyond our own doubts, can make it difficult to choose and cause confusion in the face of so many options.
It often happens that we enter an area that is not in our interest or that we maintain a work for stability.Despite all the security a profession gives, following a path that does not satisfy is also not a pleasant situation and can influence all your satisfaction and self-esteem. Try to analyze the pros and cons of staying in the profession you are pursuing and seek courage to achieve your goals.
7. Am I who I wanted to be?
We all know how to punctuate the qualities we admire in others, as well as the defects we detest. But and you? Does it have these attributes that you want to see so much in the world? It is very common to charge others, but we take little time to analyze our own behavior. We intimately believe we are good people, but for others, attitudes are necessary to demonstrate their qualities.
8. Do I make my mistakes?
Self-criticism is an indispensable factor for evolution. We know that no one is perfect, so how can we improve without knowing the weaknesses to be corrected? Not only once, but often in life we must think about how we are dealing with the consequences of our actions. It is not uncommon for some people to insist on blaming others. Taking slips is the easiest way to achieve personal growth.
9. Is this the right man for me?
There are people who get into relationships without thinking too much or planning in any way. But there are times when this analysis is necessary, whether for the pretense of having children or living together, for example. Moments of need can also influence us to take on relationships that are not quite what we wanted. A passive posture at this point can end up depressing you and keep you closed to new options.
"Rare are women who do not have the dream of marriage with veil and wreath, and still dream of that man who really will be the great passion of your life!" As much as times change and modernity makes a home, women still carry that lingering doubt ?, comments relationship psychologist Pamela Magalhães.
10. Do I give enough attention to my friends and relatives?
Because they are always there by our side, family members and close relatives may end up being left a little cornered. This is what can happen when we are sure they will always be there, which gives us the confidence that we will never lose them.
11. Is it time to build a family?
We are still far from freeing the woman from the family. Whether we like it or not, tradition tells us to dream of a wedding, children and a white picket house. There are those who really crave it, which is not wrong. The problem is when we are under pressure in this direction without being sure if that is what we want for our life.
This is also a very common question for those in their thirties, as it is a very representative time of passage from youth to adulthood.
12. Am I open to life?
Are you open to the infinite possibilities that life offers you? From opening your heart to love, meeting new people, accepting invitations to events, travel, challenging work. Proven fact is that the more we say? Yes? to life, the more it returns us with wonderful emotions.
If you're one of those who never accepts invitations, whether in the name of comfort, laziness or stress, consider whether you're not letting life go by the window, letting it all go later. Enjoy the short time we have on this planet and enjoy everything you can know. Allowing yourself to live the nuances and adventures of life will surely make you happier and more optimistic.
Thinking about yourself is the best way to be an ever better and happier person. Try answering the questions above and you will probably have a nice surprise about yourself and where your life is heading.
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