Sex is one of the most overrated human activities. While we understand that it matters and that most people appreciate it, we make a big mistake in creating unrealistic expectations about the moment.
During hour H, a lot can happen and they are not always sensual situations. It is common for something unexpected to happen, such as a bed break or a new erotic toy that you have decided to try to sound so ridiculous that you can't stop laughing.
This is all very natural and anyone can go through situations like this. The secret is not to take it too seriously, after all, the purpose of sex in general is fun. So do not heat your head. Here are some slips that can happen to any couple and why they should not be taken seriously.
1. When he broaches
Let the first stone throw who never lost his horn during or at the beginning of a relationship. Broaching is totally natural and doesn't mean he doesn't want you. Man is human, does not cover him as a robot, it is not always possible to be 100% prepared or in order. So if you noticed that your partner's penis didn't really react to your best caresses, maybe it's time to call him to see a movie and leave sex for another time. No crisis!
2. When the vagina makes strange noises
Vaginal flatus is a natural reaction of the vagina, especially after having sex in positions that favor air in the canal. At first it may refer to flatulence, but it has no smell. So if it rolls, don't worry about it. And if the cat does not understand, explain to him that it is normal and should not be taken seriously.
3. When, in the middle of sex, you lose your will
If this happens, the best thing to do is to stop. Not worth insisting on. Get together in the kitchen and do something tasty to eat or go for a walk. Having sex just to meet table is not necessary. It is also valid to say that this should not become a paranoia between you, because it is something normal that can happen to any couple.
4. When something funny happens
Who has never gone through that moment when something so bizarre happens that it is simply impossible to stop laughing? If this happens, enjoy the moment and if possible, continue the sex afterwards.
5. When the vagina simply does not collaborate
Your partner has done everything: used his fingers, used his tongue, made a nice make out, bet on the lubricant? it's nothing! Your mind is horny, but the vagina just doesn't get wet. In such cases, it is best to leave for another day and not to force the bar. If the event is frequent, it is suggested to consult a gynecologist about it. But don't worry about it as it is also a natural process of the body.
6. When someone takes a tumble
Who has never stepped, skidded or slipped on something during sex? Especially when the moment gets very lively, this is very likely to happen. Whether with you or with him, if a tumble rolls, make sure everything is in place and no one is injured and continue (if available).
7. When the new position doesn't work
It is very common for the couple, when trying a new or more exotic position to have difficulties and the moment, which was supposed to be sensual, become funny. However, it is important not to give up, try more often until you can do it comfortably. And if it never really works out, you might want to go for other positions.
8. When the penis escapes
If this happens, make sure none of you are hurt and if all is well, continue. When movements are faster and the vagina is well lubricated, it is common for this type of slip to happen. But don't let that shake the moment.
9. When does he? the target
If your partner happens to try to put the penis in the "wrong" place, warn him gently and use your hand to direct him to the right space. However, this? Error? It can even serve as a provocation for you to try something new, why not?
10. When you choke on oral sex
If this happens, do not let the penis go so deep next time and make it clear to your partner that he does not need to support your head down with your hands so that you do not choke again. Sex is healthy, but it also needs to be done with some care so you don't get hurt.
11. When condoms do not collaborate
Some condom packages are real challenges to open. Add to that the excitement and nervousness of the moment, and the sum can be a minor disaster. But a determined couple will not be swayed by an uncooperative condom.If necessary, wait a while, start over and put on another condom. It is very important that you do not stop using condoms even when it seems that everything works against you.
12. When the breast starts to leak milk
For breastfeeding women, it is common for the breast to leak a little milk or even? Squirt? the liquid, especially for those who have a lot of milk. Explain this to your partner to let them know that it is a normal process and there is no need to worry. And if you want to prevent leakage, there are patches and bras that help hold back the flow, but remember that you don't have to hide it, as it is a natural part of breastfeeding, you should never be ashamed of it.
13. When menstruation decides to go down during the act
Another surprise that can happen naturally to any woman who still has her normal menstrual cycle. If, when it happens, you are bothered by menstrual flow, one option is to go to the bathroom and enjoy sex during the shower. And if you want to stay where you are, just cover the surface with a towel to avoid stains on sheets, sofas, etc.
14. When any telephone rings
Answer or not answer? That's the question that pops into your head every time the phone rings. If possible, check who's calling and if you can, leave it to return later. If it's urgent, answer it and then start over. Do not give up.
15. When the gases are uncontrollable
Anyone who has been through this knows how embarrassing and traumatic it can be, especially if you are responsible for the unwanted gases. If the partner is your boyfriend, fiancé or husband, it is easier to get over it, but if it is that cat you are meeting and super in love with it, the timing may be more difficult. However, in both cases we cannot take it so seriously and we must remember that anyone can go through this because it is normal to have a day of runaway in the gases. If it happens to you, apologize, let the place air a little and then resume the activity. And if it happens to the partner, be understanding, after all, it could have been with you too.
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