Does point G exist? Sexologist gives tips on movements and positions to enjoy it

A few decades ago it has been possible to observe people and science increasingly engaged in more accurate responses in the area of ​​sexuality, sex and orgasm. There is much talk about the importance of having an active sex life, regardless of whether you have a serious relationship or not, as well as the need for sex to be safe in order to avoid not only an unwanted pregnancy but especially so-called illnesses. sexually transmitted.

Yes, there is a lot of information and even some? Innovations? When it comes to sex, the pursuit of pleasure. But there is no denying it: all this causes many doubts and, in some cases, even an exaggerated search for the "perfect sex", for the "intense pleasure".

Keila Oliveira, a psychologist, sexologist, and sex therapist, comments that over time, many answers (regarding sexuality, sex, and orgasm) have been found; and others have come up much more as speculations and assumptions. As we have evolved in technology and ready-to-go responses to everyday and everyday life, we have seen that this urge to know everything and make life more practical and exceptional has become a very clear target, which virtually every world is searching fast ?, he says.

“We have a true industry of happiness every day in favor of gadgets and bombastic discoveries that make life easier and keep us from facing frustrations and emotional involvement itself as a reflection of our achievements as well as our failures. In the area of ​​sexuality, however, we have little news in terms of technology and advances in medicine when compared to other areas of science: such as aesthetics, genetics, cardiology and infectology, for example?

When it comes to sex, a very prominent theme is the so-called G-spot, but surrounded by many doubts. He would be practically responsible? for giving the woman maximum pleasure.

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Keila explains that the term? G-spot? It emerged in the 1980s and has its origin in the allusion of studies in the area of ​​female anatomy of the German physician Ernst Gräfenberg. According to this concept, it would be a region found in the anterior region of the vagina, about 4 cm from the entrance to the vagina canal. It is believed that it would be exactly in the region near the clitoral innervation and, therefore, responsible for the orgasm ?, says.

Gynecologist, obstetrician and specialist in Human Reproduction, Ricardo Luba comments that there are those who agree and who do not believe in the so-called G. Point? In fact, there is no scientific evidence, but it is usually indicated as at the entrance of the vagina, the anterior wall? , he says.

How to find point G?

But after all, what is point G? How to find it? It works? for all women?

To find point G, the index finger should be inserted into the vagina with the palm facing upwards. The vaginal wall in this region has roughness, irregularities. Deepening the finger a little further, you can see that the vaginal wall becomes smooth. Point G is in the region of the anterior wall of the vagina, with roughness ?.

Ricardo Luba, Obstetrician, Gynecologist and Reproduction Specialist

The gynecologist adds that masturbation and even the use of vibrators can help a woman find the G-spot. With masturbation, the woman learns her most pleasurable points and thus the use of vibrators helps in locating the G-spot. , guides.

Keila explains that she prefers to call this a "virtual region". ? It is extremely valid that it is explored, however, I call it so, because it works in some women, in others not. There are theories that it exists in all women, but in some it has not yet been found or stimulated properly. Others, of which in some women this zone is more prominent and, therefore, of better access?, He ponders.

What we should not lose sight of is that every woman is a complex and idiosyncratic world. What is great for some people, for others it can be absolutely weird, and that goes for anything in life, including sex and orgasm. Orgasm and female desire are still largely unknown zones, and we still have much to discover ?, highlights the sexologist.

Over the years, serving couples and women with low desire, orgasm difficulties, and sex-related issues, I come closer and closer to the understanding that people are too lazy to try to achieve a more fulfilling and broader sex life and seek answers. The solution is ready for a more fun sex life and a plus sex, without having to work hard or invest your creative side in it. And it is precisely because I believe this that I feel that the G spot is so successful in the media, because it is more of a ready answer. We found it! Wow! Our sex life will be wonderful from now on, Keila comments.

The sexologist explains that the creative way to always look for other answers and cool things to sex life and two is wonderful: we have to always seek and reinvent.But can't we fall for the deception that they are miraculous and ultimately solve our problem?

Keila points out that point G, in theory, is located very close to the entrance of the vagina in the anterior part. “To find it, we should put our finger facing the pub area and have a massage as if we had a little thing, the so-called 'come here' movement. You should look for various types of touches, more delicate, more pressured, faster, or slower. Can each woman feel it differently?

What should be kept in mind is that the whole surroundings of the sexual act have a reflection on this; What I mean is that there is no point in investing in the G-spot without any preliminaries, no climax, as if G-spot were the ON button! In fact, in women, it's hard to find a single "ON button". I always say: There are lots of little buttons, and if you don't turn on a combination of several, the sex can be dull and drab. These magic little buttons? they are spread all over the body, in various erogenous zones, in our emotions, in our mind and even in our imagination. Turn on a combination of them and the chance of success is very high? Stimulates the sexologist.

5 moves and positions to enjoy point G

Keila explains that masturbation and the vibrator greatly help to arouse various sensations in the female body, thus being excellent supplements for sex.

For women to find G-spot alone in masturbation is a little more complicated than with the help of a partner, according to Keila. But below she gives some movement / position tips to help in both cases:

1. Lying face down, with fingers searching the upper part of the vagina canal with strong and slow movements;
2. Lying on his stomach, his fingers searching the upper part of the vagina canal, simulating rapid penetration;
3. Lying on your back, placing your finger inside the vagina as if digging a little hole towards the mattress;
4. In masturbation, alone, the woman should seek positions sitting on the headboard, seeking a position in which the range of this region is comfortable. It helps to put a pillow under the legs;
5. Lying on your side in a fetal position with a pillow folded between your legs.

Man has G point?

Keila explains that the male G-spot correlate would be the innervated region of the prostate, reached either by rectal touch or the outer region of the perineum (between the testicles and the anus). ? More than just looking for? Ready answers? When it comes to sex and, in this case, man's pleasure, is it better to seek to invest in caresses in various regions of the body and in various forms ?, he says.

Although not all, some men are simply terrified at the thought of being touched in this region (this is largely because of the myth that anal pleasure is related to homosexuality, which is not true). For these men, give up this attempt at the anus; the attempt may be more fruitful for the perineum and yet look there !? comments the sexologist.

"Other men already declare this preference to their partners, and if they have no reservations about it," wonder. " The anus of man is an erogenous region, because of its proximity to the prostate that is for him. The prostate, in turn, is an extremely vascularized and innervated region, which when stimulated provides intense pleasure ?, adds Keila.

The truth is that, in the case of both women and men, it is always worth remembering that people are unique. What's good for one may not be nice for another. There is no harm in trying to search for the so-called G point, quite the contrary, this can be a pleasurable search. What is not valid is being obsessed? with that, thinking this is the only way to really enjoyable sex.

The dialogue between the pair is fundamental. One should not be afraid to ask what the other likes or dislikes. It's always good to know how far your partner meets or does not meet certain caresses. Respecting each other's tastes and limits is a great way, Keila points out.

In sex, as in a relationship in general, there are no rules? The important thing is to want and be willing to live that at that particular time!

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