As we have already said, the decision whether or not to have children is very important, especially because one has to be fully aware of what is gained and lost.
The changes are already noticed in the first months of pregnancy, when the woman's body tries to adapt to a hormonal revolution, causing: nausea, drowsiness, heartburn and so on. In addition, it is recommended that you do not dye your hair, smoke, reduce your intake of coffee and teas and start a healthy diet.
Although the timing is special, many women feel? Ugly? and? fat? This can often alienate the couple, especially sexually. Contrary to popular belief (especially men), sex during pregnancy is not harmful to the baby, does not hurt him, nor will it bring "psychological trauma". Thus, the most important thing is always to clarify the doubts with the gynecologist as simple as they are.
Orientation is fundamental for a healthy and peaceful pregnancy which will make the arrival of the baby a happy event.
The first days after birth are very busy, it is a new phase of adaptation, alternating in moments of joy, fear, doubt and so on. The woman again finds herself in a new hormonal revolution becomes especially sensitive, confused and anxious.
As the mother feels overwhelmed in performing current tasks and limited to previous ones, it is not uncommon to find women who cannot take their five minutes to shower or to simply have a quiet meal.
Of course, at first there is a difficulty in knowing what the baby needs, crying can bring feelings of inability and frustration over the difficulty of interacting with the child. The man may be unsure about parenting, despite the joy of being a father, there is jealousy about having to share his wife with the baby.
At this point it is important for the woman to include the father in the baby's daily care (bathing, changing diapers, etc.). There is often a tie? So tight? In the mother-baby relationship, it is almost impossible for a woman to make room for her father to feel useful and necessary.
The couple should come together and talk about simple but important decisions, as they avoid unnecessary discussions, such as where the baby will sleep the bathing routine, breastfeeding, etc. It is not recommended that the baby sleep with the parents in bed, and there is a risk of a parent falling asleep over the baby, the couple's relationship is extremely cold without physical contact (affection and sex).
The woman must be aware of the dependence on the baby, it is very common for her to isolate herself by blaming the child (Ex.? He is not without me?), When exactly the opposite, she can not move away from the child. Of course we are talking about maternal instinct and protection, but she needs to exercise that independence by going out with her husband, friends, adapting the baby's trip to day care or babysitting, and slowly returning to her routine, from work, home, wife and now mother.
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