There is no secret recipe for a date to work or for you to engage a relationship. But some attitudes at these times can help you or put everything to lose. So check out some tips on what to do and what not to do on your first date:
- Don't be afraid to talk
If he invited you for a sushi carousel, and you don't eat fish, or if he asked you for a drink, and you don't drink, tell him. He needs to respect your limits and your wants, and especially know how you are. This way you will be sure in the future that he likes you for who you really are. - Do not wear uncomfortable clothes or shoes.
Obviously you want to do your best on the first date. However, if you can barely breathe inside your dress, you will feel the effect of anxiety bothering you much more than if you were wearing a comfortable outfit. And when it's time to walk together a few blocks looking for the car? You don't want to do that with heels you can't walk with, and hurt your feet, don't you? - Arrive on time
All that talk that a little delay gives an air of mystery is old and no longer fit these days. The delay, by the way, is a sign of disregard. If you take hours to do your hair and are aware of it, start dressing earlier than usual so you don't risk making it wait. - With the!
If you think that stopping eating will make you look more feminine or thinner, forget it. In fact, the impression you get from not eating at a dinner party is to be fresh. Relax and enjoy, after all, the meeting is made so that the two can have fun! - Drink, but not until you drop
We're not telling you to stop having fun. But you don't want to be carried home by someone you barely know, do you? Drinking together can be fun, but have limits, for your own good. - DO NOT obsess about your appearance
Don't waste your time going to the bathroom getting ready every five minutes, checking the mirror, tweaking your makeup and straightening your hair. Calm down, be yourself and act naturally. A first date already brings enough anxiety, do not increase it. - Leave the phone away
There is nothing more unpleasant than talking to someone who is constantly checking the phone. Enjoy his company and his conversation, after all, emails, Facebook and Instagram can wait. - Don't mention other guys
Believe me, he won't want to know about your ex-boyfriend, dating history, or list of guys you've already been with. Instead of impressing you, you will just bore him and make him think that the hours with you are not pleasant.
Via Yahoo Shine
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