It sounds like a joke, but it's not! Being an indecisive person is as difficult as? Decide if you want fries or onion rings! If you want today a chocolate ice cream (the usual) or strawberry (for a change)!
So much for making the simplest everyday decisions? like coffee or cappuccino ?! ? How to make choices in serious situations? stay in the current job or accept the new opportunity? ?, only those who are undecided know how complicated life is!
It is a real conflict of feelings and reasons! Or, it's as if two imaginable beings stand on either side, giving their opinion on what you should and should not do! While one says, "Have some coffee," it's already part of your routine. This cappuccino may not even be so good!?; other encourages? opt for cappuccino today, you always have coffee anyway! It's good to vary!
Have you identified yourself with any of these situations ?! Not sure about that yet, but do you suspect so ?! Welcome to the undecided team! You will surely identify with one or most of the situations below!
1. Be next to the order line in a restaurant?
And you still have no idea what you want to eat, much less drink!
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2. Choose a new series to follow
The one your friend indicated or everyone is talking well on the internet?
3. Set the Sunday Lunch Menu
Is it noodles or lasagna? White or red sauce? Or how about just being in the salad ?!
4. Answer what is your favorite color, book or movie
Why, there are so many options! How to choose just one ?!
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5. Go to an ice cream shop, a self service restaurant or fast food
How not to put all the flavors of ice cream in the pot ?! How to choose between pasta or rice with steak? Chicken or meat snack? Why so many options in one place ??!
6. Choose selfie to post on Instagram
And what is the best filter to enhance the image!
7. Write an Email
How to choose the right words? Start with? Dear? or for? good afternoon ??
8. Packing
Pack a small suitcase? How to take only the essentials if you do not know what you will want to use on the day ?! What if it's cold?
9. Choose just one outfit from the store you love
Carry the most expensive and beautiful or opt for that key piece that you are sure will use much more? Pants or skirt? Blue or black? Can't take it all ?!
10. Does anyone pressure you to decide soon?
And you get even more indecisive! How to decide something under pressure ?! Impossible!
11. Go to a pizza caster
How to choose just a few flavors? The bacon one looks great, but the chicken one is awesome too! If I eat this, can I take another piece of cheese?
12. Decide whether or not to eat the candy
Sounds great, but I don't want to get off the diet! If I eat just a little piece has problem?
13. Deal with a drastic weekend change of weather
And you had already decided all the details of the look you would use! And now, what to wear?
14. Participate in work staff secret friend
How to choose a good gift for a person who does not have so much affinity? If buying something for you is already a nightmare, imagine for someone else ?! Will he like it? Maybe yes, maybe not!
15. Deciding whether or not to go out on Friday night
Great night to stay home watching TV and rest! But what if the party is great? Is it worth going? Will I regret going?
And look, these are just some of the many dilemmas that an indecisive person goes through daily!
Definitely, being undecided is not easy! After all, are so many aspects and details to consider? How to decide fast? How to be 100% sure?
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