Can you identify the signs of a betrayal?

Being betrayed, the most radical would say, is just a matter of time. The truth is that the temptations and facilities that the world today offers for the famous? Leap of fence? come true are countless, and it is very difficult to find that good guy who will not make you go through this situation.

However, just as cheating has become almost too easy, so you don't have to be a genius to find out a betrayal, especially since men give off a lot of signals when they're doing something wrong, just pay attention. If you are suspicious of your partner, some behaviors from your partner may be the confirmation you expected.

Cell phone

Today almost everyone has a mobile phone, which makes it one of the main media and therefore a tool that will probably be used if your partner is cheating on you. Be wary if he suddenly comes out of your way to answer calls, exchange excessive text messages, or keep the device always hidden, just with him in his pocket, for example.

Treatment

If your partner, for no specific reason, changes the way you treat her, be aware: Men who feel guilty about something they have done tend to make up for it by treating their partner much better from time to time. The opposite, however, is also a warning sign. If your partner has suddenly treated you very badly, he may be interested in someone else.

Mysterious Appointments

When a man says he goes to work later, when a man begins to devote many evenings of the week to football or video games with friends, when a man needs to take several work trips on weekends, when he can't see you on Saturday night because Grandma is sick, so there are several mysterious appointments that may indicate betrayal.

Internet

The internet is the representation of an opportunity for betrayal. Like mobile phones, it is now common for people to communicate over the internet, making it another source of doubt and distrust. When your boyfriend spends too much time on the Internet without it being an old habit, it may not be a betrayal, but more radical women would point this out as a warning sign to you.

New friendships

It can be in college, at work or even in the circle of friends. The guy just can't stop mentioning his new friendships. Comments like? Is so-and-so very competent / smart / funny? They can be very innocent, but when they are too frequent, they can also be interpreted as a certain level of interest on the part of the boy.

Opinion

João Rafael C. (26 years old / single) states: “I believe that when some standard signs appear: inattention and lack of companionship, it is necessary to be suspicious. The person who cheats stops caring about their partner, stops sacrificing for the common good of the couple. Lose interest in joint activities, has traces of irritability. In my opinion these are the main signs. But the biggest for sure is disinterest.

Already Veronica P. (28 years / bride) thinks that sudden changes in behavior or fights can also be a sign that the person is cheating on you. The reader Juliana C. (21 years / dating) also gave her opinion:? When the partner hides the phone, avoids access to social networks in front of you and does not answer the phone at crucial moments? for example on a friday night? There may be something wrong. Unless the relationship is open or in cases where the couple does not use their cell phone and social networks very often. But for me they are strong evidence. Even because the betrayals today start virtual?

How to react to suspicion?

If you suspect that the cat's cellular activities are actually contacts with other women, don't freak out and think about investigating. In addition to being ugly, this attitude shows a lack of respect for the other's space. Similarly, watching over each step taken by your partner should not be an option because it makes you a slave to 24/7 surveillance.

When there is distrust of betrayal, the best thing to do is to analyze the possible options. Open dialogue is always the best way to solve the problem fairly, preventing both parties from hurting themselves further. First, wait for the anger you feel at first to subside before attempting any kind of conversation. Warm-headed attitudes do not always correspond to what we really want to do.

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