How to leave ex-love behind once and for all

As annoying as it is to admit it or take action to resolve the situation, many women know perfectly well when a relationship comes to an end. The problem, in these cases, is to take the initiative to end the relationship, due to the time of living, the custom or even the good relationship that has between the couple.

Extending a commitment that is no longer working, however, can be even worse for you and your partner. Over time, it becomes even more difficult to move away, and of course both of you will feel bad about the situation. If you are experiencing a similar dilemma, consider the steps below and don't be afraid to be single for a while.

"I don't want to break up because I pity my boyfriend?"

It is a more common situation than it may seem. Not ending the relationship because you feel sorry for the other is, however, a wrong decision, because it fosters in him even more hopes to stay with him.

Swap places with your partner? You probably wouldn't want him to keep dating you just because he feels sorry for you. So don't do the same to him. If you think you don't like it anymore or feel that the relationship has no future, think carefully. Make the decision, call him to a definite conversation and be firm. It would be worse if you continued together without mutual feeling.

"We broke up, but he didn't leave my life?"

Sometimes your partner may not agree to the end of the relationship and stay around, calling, texting, e-mailing and even gifts. It may be that it appears from time to time, and you end up together, or it may simply not accept to end.

In that case, it's up to you to decide if you want to keep things that way, risking hurting him when you meet another boy or feeling hurt if you see him with another. Friendship can, of course, be maintained if you so desire, but it is a good time to strengthen these bonds between you. If you, however, don't want to be his friend, make it clear and ask him not to look for you anymore. The opposite, of course, is crucial if you want your radius to be respected: it's not worth calling your ex when you feel lonely or needy.

? We are done, but I can not forget it?

Reviewing the photos and messages exchanged during the relationship will not help. It's also hard to keep away if you try to be in the same places as him or live by taking a peek at the boy's social networks. It may be a bad experience to sever the bond completely with your ex, but only then can you move on once and for all.

Store the memorabilia in a box and put it out of sight, so you won't be tempted to always look at its contents. If necessary, exclude the boy from your social networks, and if you attend the same wheel of friends, avoid being in the same events and places as him. The end is even more painful when it goes beyond what is necessary.

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