In the game of conquest, the two parties involved are always trying to stay one point ahead of each other. That's because, when it comes to love relationships, the chances of someone getting hurt are often quite high. So can phrases, gestures, and looks say a lot about a person's true intentions? and paying attention to these details makes all the difference in interpreting it.
Similarly, there are several ways to send one message to another, and this strategy does not always involve only verbal communication. Knowing what kind of signals you are sending and receiving from your suitor or intended is critical to anyone who wants to start a relationship.
1 ? The smile
When a person smiles, they show that they are feeling good, comfortable or happy. Smiling creates an atmosphere of empathy between the parties and can facilitate rapprochement even when two people do not yet know each other.
2 ? The posture
When a person is, for example, with his arms crossed, this is an involuntary demonstration of a lack of interest in what is being said or in the interlocutor. On the other hand, when someone leans forward slightly during a conversation, that means there is interest in the subject.
Curved shoulders or a sloppy posture can give you the feeling of low self-esteem and little concern for the topic of conversation.
3? Eyes to eyes
If someone speaks in your eyes, it is because they are not afraid or ashamed to expose themselves to you. Eye contact during a conversation is a good sign that there is or is creating a complicity between you and the other.
4? The ringtones
Light and light touches on the other person's shoulders or arms mean that you are trying to make a deeper contact with them. If a boy does this to you, know that he is interested in the subject or even in you. Likewise, if you want to show interest, this is a good tactic as long as the touches are really subtle, no poking? the guy.
5? The movements
Agreeing with your head when speaking is another way to empathize and make the other person more comfortable in the conversation. Tilting your head slightly to the side shows interest and curiosity about the subject at hand. Hands hidden in pockets, in turn, may mean that you are hiding something from the other person.
All these signals sent by the body are often unconscious. We do not realize what they mean, and so we can give the wrong image not only to the men we are interested in, but to the people we live with in general. Knowing how to control and use this kind of communication can help us have a better relationship with these people, diminishing misconceptions about us and making it possible for us to approach them in a more humane way with which they will feel comfortable being themselves. when they are with us.
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