The clitoris, this great mystery of science and humanity, is an extremely important part of female sexuality. Knowing how it works and how to stimulate it can be a powerful weapon in pleasure time. On the other hand, not knowing or understanding you can end up leaving your sex life incomplete and you dissatisfied.
Many women rely on clitoral stimulation as well as penetration to climax. In fact, according to experts, every female orgasm is linked to the clitoris. This is because it has a much larger size and range than you can see, and it involves a large part of the genital region.
The clitoris has great function in the sexual act. Human reproduction is one of nature's only that includes pleasure as a reward. In this sense, the clitoris is the female organ responsible for orgasm. It is the only part of the body that has the exclusive function of providing pleasure. For many women, the clitoris is the most consistent source of orgasm and stimulating it during penetration may be the shortest way to get there.
As with everything related to female sexuality, scientific studies on the clitoris and its features and characteristics are poor and incomplete. This situation leaves people unaware of the functioning and parts of the female genital organ, and allows many untruths to be told and repeated.
Deva Sangito, a tantric therapy specialist who seeks to unlock expressions and emotions through meditation, exercise and massage, explains that we are not taught how to handle the sexual organs properly. The number of men and women who think the clitoris is limited to the clitoral glans, the part of the organ that is exposed, is not small. Its nerve endings run all over the side of the vagina and connect directly to the pineal gland. Properly stimulated, is this muscle group capable of producing sufficient bioelectricity for multiple, intense and therapeutic orgasms?
The clitoris is so tied to female pleasure that in some conservative societies it is amputated or mutilated to avoid woman satisfaction, often related to impurity. This practice, despite its cultural character, is considered by the rest of the world as barbaric. The body and female sexuality are still today loaded with many taboos. It is important to be mindful of breaking these social conventions so that women finally earn the right to be sexually happy. The clitoris is just another part of the entire female sex life of which little is said or reported. Many men and women do not know where it is or the advantages of knowing it.
Either way, stimulated directly or not, the clitoris will always be present in the female orgasm. Studies indicate that the clitoris does not age, that is, no matter how old it is, its functioning will be tingling. Enjoy!
Physical characteristics
Clitoris is the name of the pyramid-shaped sexual organ at the top of the vulva. It is considered the female equivalent of the penis and its sole function is sexual pleasure. The comparison with the penis is not merely illustrative, both have many biological similarities. Clitoris and penis are formed by the same tissues during pregnancy. Like the male reproductive organ, the clitoris comes with the foreskin, the skin that protects it and often leaves it hidden. Stimulated, it fills with blood, grows and hardens, like a small erection.
The clitoris gathers about eight thousand nerve endings, more than the tongue or penis, which when gathered on such a small surface make it extremely sensitive. This whole sensitivity can be good or bad. Too much pressure, as well as anything that might scratch or hurt, can, on the contrary, get in the way of pleasure.
It is important not to confuse clitoris with G point. The latter, according to some experts, is below the clitoris, and both are linked. When aroused, it causes the vulva to expand and open, which can also increase male pleasure at the time of penetration. After orgasm, the clitoris muscles do not relax immediately, and this is precisely what allows women to orgasm multiple.
The size of the clitoris can vary greatly. Some women have it very small and cannot be seen even in arousal. In other cases it may be larger. Size variations are common and should not cause physical or psychological discomfort.
Since this is so, let's learn all about it and how to use it for our pleasure.
Clitoris Handbook
1. Stimuli and more stimuli
Stimulating the clitoris with the hand and fingers can be quite satisfactory. Circular gestures are the most suitable. But be wary of the sensitivity of the place. Movement too weak can be insignificant, and too strong can hurt. It is important that the area is lubricated to avoid scratching or injuring. Some women also like a light pat. Signal to your partner what you find interesting to do.
2. No hurry
Leave the clitoris for a second moment of the sexual act. Wanting to stimulate it first of all can even ruin the climate due to the large amount of nerve endings in the area. It is preferable to instigate other erogenous areas to prepare the clitoris. Like the penis, does the clitoris stiffen with arousal? From then on he will be prepared to receive the affection.
3. Oral Sex
Oral sex is an excellent clitoral stimulus tactic. Because it is moist and soft, using the tongue softly at first and a little stronger later is the pinnacle for many women. Oral sex need not be exclusively in the clitoris. Other parts, such as the small lips, may also be contemplated. But surely, the tongue in contact with the clitoris can take you in the clouds.
4. Sexual Positions
There are some sexual positions that can help stimulate by allowing the area to rub against the partner's body or by allowing the hands to access. The classic daddy and mommy? already guarantees a friction in the clitoris. Others allow your partner or yourself to stimulate the clitoris area with your hands, such as horseback riding, with the woman on top, or sitting front or back.
5. No shyness
Allow yourself to experiment without fear. Tell your partner or try to make him understand which way to go. Direct his hands and his body yourself. Men interested in satisfying women like to receive tips from their partner on how to behave.
6. Exercises to get you ready
There are exercises that prepare and strengthen the clitoris and the entire erogenous region in general. Pelvic exercise or even simple walking can increase your sexual capacity. Tantric therapist Deva Sangito adds that one of the main causes of anorgasmia (the absence of orgasm) in women is exactly the hyponification of the clitoral muscles, meaning that women do not have these developed muscles. Thus, as in a gym, if you come up with flabby muscles you won't be able to lift much weight, with underdeveloped clitoral muscles you won't be able to sustain the high levels of bioenergy that the clitoris is capable of producing. Sometimes it will barely be able to reach the arousal plateau necessary for orgasm?
7. Masturbation yes
Masturbation is always a good option to get to know your clitoris and your whole body. This way you will know what you like. Knowing yourself is essential to knowing how to have pleasure. So get to work!
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