Lap dance: learn how to do this sensual dance and surprise your partner

Lap dance, or lap dance, as the translation says, was born in the United States and soon spread to Europe and the rest of the world. Here in Brazil she arrived more recently, still a little shy.

It is a seductive dance in which one of the partners moves very close to the other and may even sit on his / her lap, but without letting him or her touch your body. It's a great seduction game. She is great for those who want to spice up the relationship and get out of the rut.

Step by step for an unforgettable lap dance

We talked to psychologist and sexologist Keila Oliveira who gave us a surefire step-by-step to do a lap dance that could drive your partner crazy. Check out:


  1. Prepare the place
  2. Choose a sexy outfit
  3. Choose appropriate songs for this moment
  4. Leave a comfortable and suggestive lighting
  5. Start dancing farther from him
  6. Approach Slowly
  7. Don't let him or her touch you
  8. Make eye contact

Much of lap dance comes with the feelings of the moment. Remember to feel very confident and comfortable.

Accessories to make your lap dance even more sensual

The dance itself is a powerful weapon, but it can be augmented with some good accessories. Anything that will help you and your partner get excited is most welcome.

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Sale or scarf

To make your partner more curious and to help work the other senses, it is recommended to cover his or her eyes for a while. You can explore hearing and touch, for example, or even offer drinks and fruits to use your taste buds as well.

Massage oil

It will help you touch your partner more seductively. Use it on you too, but this time let him or her see you touching, it will surely make you very excited to continue.

Ropes or handcuffs

The fun of the game is that it makes you horny and can do nothing, and not to let him or her touch you at all, tying you up may be a good option. This will also help to warm things up and he or she will get into your business easier.


A good outfit

People are usually very visual, so investing in the look is essential. You can wear lingerie, a transparent robe or some other outfit that will mess with the other person's imagination. You can invest in costumes too, as long as you are comfortable with it.

15 songs for your lap dance to be even better

Music is an essential part of lap dance. She who will give all the necessary ambiance so that everything rolls as tasty as possible. That's why we made a playlist to make your lap dance even more complete and sensual.

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  1. Dance for you (Beyonce)
  2. Pour It Up (Rihanna)
  3. Human (Sevdaliza)
  4. Often (The Weekend)
  5. Partition (Beyonce)
  6. Slow (Sammie)
  7. Replaceable (Sevdaliza)
  8. Needed me (Rihanna)
  9. Dangerous Woman (Ariana Grande)
  10. Earned it (The Weekend)
  11. Body party (Ciara)
  12. Gold (Kiiara)
  13. Let Me Love You (Ariana Grande)
  14. Rocket (Beyonce)
  15. Crazy In Love (Remix) (Beyonce)

Doing a lap dance may be simpler than it sounds, but don't forget that in addition to sensuality, safety and comfort should be on the alert. Feel and feel your partner, when well connected, the dance rolls very easily.

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