You're leaving home to go to a flirt bar. He thinks this is his lucky day and comes out with the most beautiful clothes he has and the most neat makeup. Arriving at the bar you drink, talk to some guys and end the night in the arms of one. But which one? The one who looks like a good boy? like to get married? ? or in the arms of the naughty-faced guy who hit all night? If you fall in the conversation of the wrong man often know that you are not the only one.
Why do I always attract the wrong man?
It happened once, twice, three. You were going out with a guy full of characteristics you don't like, but you got used to it, you liked it. He left this relationship and entered another one. Relating to the wrong man turns out to be an addiction, almost a disease.
Once you relate to someone like that, you will unconsciously seek what he had in other men. So in fact you end up looking for them, isn't it necessarily you attracting the wrong ones? You choose them from the crowd.
Men like this are characterized in many different ways. He can be a very selfish man, aggressive, too jealous, among so many other negative adjectives.
To find out if your relationships often happen to the "wrong guy," just look at how often you find yourself complaining about him and how often people have asked you: "But if he's like that, why are you still with him?" and the answer is usually ?Do not know?.
Some women are believed to be attracted to the wrong men because they misalign their order of life. Women with a financially well-settled and stable life can also fall into the clutches of the wrong man, after all their lives are in order and need a bit of clutter to give a different touch to their daily lives.
However, many things in life you can put in order, but once the relationship with the wrong man has begun, it is no use wanting him to change, to be ordained by you.
If you always find yourself in these situations, relating to men who have a personality you don't like, but who always find a way to keep you connected with them, be aware and don't fall for it anymore.
The first step is to appreciate yourself and remember that you don't need a man to be complete or to feel "someone". The second step is to avoid dating these men, run away from them at the first sign that he may be the wrong man. The third step is to change your habits a bit, for example, instead of looking for a boyfriend at the bar, why not try another way to meet new people? Change the air.
If you are still in doubtful relationships with men who do not respect you, you may want to seek advice from a psychologist. This kind of relationship you are unconsciously seeking may be linked to other facts of your life and need to be analyzed from a professional angle so that you can take the right course and get rid of this addiction.
There are also those who say that women like to be abused, but this is a somewhat dubious statement. Woman likes affection and attention and above all to be respected. How many times have you heard someone say they were insulted by their husband or boyfriend and liked it? I hope none.
For a relationship to be more likely to work, it is important that it be easy, that it doesn't take much work, that one doesn't want to change the other. Therefore, seek respectful relationships with men who have a personality compatible with yours.
Remember, the wrong man from one can be the right man for another. So there is no reason to worry that you will be alone, do not be afraid of it. Be afraid to live an unhappy life, seek your happiness, even if you need to spend a little more time alone? In search of the ideal partner trims you.
How to STOP Attracting The Wrong Guys (April 2024)
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