Sex is the most vulnerable moment of the human being, from the physical and even emotional point of view. Being without clothes, facing each other, may seem like a simple attitude, but it is not. No matter how big the connections between the couple, by the time H almost everyone has had an embarrassing situation.
Noises, falls and delayed hair removal, for example, can be quite embarrassing, but they don't bother you as much as the inconvenient phrases at the end of the relationship. The Argentine site Entre Mujeres conducted a survey with its readers, asking them to vote on the most hated post-sex phrases. If you are a woman, you may have heard some of the following phrases.
1 ? ?I have to go?
Alright, it could just be sex. We have reached a point in evolution where we are able to understand that some relationships were made for a single night. But for education, should you take a break? and a basic disguise? before throwing himself out the door. This is what 41% of readers said, and earned the first place of the phrases most hated by women, with almost double the votes of second place.
2 ? Where's the remote?
Very common, especially among couples who are married or live together. It turns out that for women, sexual intercourse is a special moment that "doesn't end when it ends". The female portion of the population enjoys affection, conversation and intimacy even after the end of sex itself. When the partner asks for the remote control, as soon as the sex ends, we tend to feel used by them, a fun as banal as television itself. The phrase was quoted by 19% of readers who answered the survey.
3? ? I don't want to talk now?
Well, please. We just had moments of deep physical connection and now simply they don't want to talk? This indifference deeply bothers the female soul who often just wants to exchange a few sentences before turning the other way and sleeping, for example. The phrase was mentioned by 16% of respondents. Men, we understand that the male organism practically shuts them off. after sex, but it doesn't hurt to make an effort to please us a bit.
4? I don't want commitment
Fine, but this is not the time to mention the objection. It may even be that the woman herself does not want to be involved in a more formal relationship either, but there are other times when this topic can be debated. After sex is definitely not the right time, at least for 12% of poll respondents.
5? ?I can stay??
The opposite end of the guy who wants nothing to do with you? and almost as annoying as him? It's the guy who sticks to you like there's no tomorrow. He will ask to stay and soon you will be officially relating to him. 10% of respondents said they hate hearing this phrase at the end of the sex. Of course it is still a minority, but it shows that women's values are changing. Increasingly, women tend to behave as men used to do: "I am from everyone and everyone is mine too," just as in the song.
Is that you? What phrases do you hate to hear after sex?
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