In everyday rush, sometimes there is not even time for sex. But on second thought, which relationship is fine without him? You can't say that sex is everything in the relationship, but it can't be put aside. Sex, rather than romance, is for many a physical necessity. This is why it is important to preserve personal satisfaction, relaxation and even relationships.
The quickie should be part of relationships, especially longer ones. In the tiredness of the daily relationship, with so much to take care of, is not always possible that time or disposition for a complete sex, with foreplay, romance, affection? Everyone likes to invest time in sex, but sometimes this is not possible. The quickie provides immediate satisfaction, and can be practiced in different places, with clothes and without the worry of being a complete package. It can also be an alternative to the quick relief sought through masturbation, thus being an extra option for those seeking pleasure and not having so much time.
For relationship psychologist Pamela Magalhães, quickie can bring many benefits to a relationship because, immersed in this chaotic pace of the contemporary world, we often lack time for everything, including sex. So, so that couples are not restricted to scheduling their sex or even waiting for the best possible time (which eventually extinguishes them), the quickie can be a great alternative! Filled with excitement, adrenaline, and precisely because it is unexpected, just true to the immediate desire, can yield a lot of satisfaction and upgrade the mood and self-esteem of the couple ?.
Features
In the quickie there is no time for many foreplay and games. As its name implies, the most striking feature of this modality is its duration time. As the subject is duration, comfort should not be a major concern. Isn't it necessary either to be naked? Clothing sex can be very exciting - how often do we not see it in movies?
The fun here is precisely in adventure and surprise. It is a casual and instant sexual intercourse. It can, and sometimes should, happen outside the bed, in other rooms indoors or out. Because time is short, getting to know your partner's body in detail can make the most of the quickie.
But for the quickie to happen it takes a willingness of both. So, no frills or laziness and enjoy the (little) time you have together.
Why is it good
Often, the tiredness of daily life and life together cools the sex life of a couple. With routine and responsibilities in common, libido and attraction can fall. If this situation is accompanied by a decrease in the number of relationships, it could pose a danger to the union.
The quickie can help and should be inserted into a couple's sex life. Certainly this will give a new gas and joy to the relationship, making it more stripped and attractive. And it need not necessarily have penetration. An oral sex quickie is also a great idea.
Where to do? See 9 suggestions for your quickie
The cool thing about Quickie is that she doesn't need a bed to roll over. Since the order is quick satisfaction, it is good to be unexpected. Innovate in places indoors or out. The higher the adrenaline, the more arousal. The risk of being caught in the act gives sex a taste of adventure. But be careful when having sex in public places, if you get caught you may even get arrested for indecent assault.
Take the opportunity to go for a quickie when you meet at home, in the morning, or at the busiest times when you are together. Sometimes leaving for the night or the weekend can be frustrated by the coldness of the schedule and also by some eventuality, sex may end up not happening.
We've put together some tips on the best places for the quickie. No matter where they are, they will go crazy if the attitude from you:
1. In the bathroom
The bathroom is a great place for the quickie. In addition to having the security of being indoors, one can take advantage of the moment when he or you are getting ready for work. Surprise your partner when he is taking a shower, in the shower or in the bathtub. He'll love your attitude and they still come out clean.
2. In bed
The quickie can happen in many places, but the bed doesn't have to be crossed off the list. A quick morning, when both are in a mood, will set a new mood in your day.The sexologist Walkíria Fernandes recalls that “waking up in the morning, even at a tight time, when the horny happens, it is often difficult to leave to enjoy sex at the end of the day. Even because the desire may not be the same when time is available?
3. In the kitchen
Supported by the sink or leaning against the wall. Take the opportunity to attack your partner when he is doing the dishes or cooking.
4. In the window
Having sex in front of the window can combine the tranquility of being at home with the thrill of being seen. You can rest your hands on the window and your partner to penetrate from behind. For this place there is a trick: if your house is only a little darker than the outside, there is no way you can be seen by neighbors, it is guaranteed. The sight of the movement of the street and the question of whether you can be seen will make the game very exciting.
5. In the car
The car is a great place for the quickie, because it can't be comfortable enough for full sex or elaborate positions. If the car has space and dark windows, even better. Can you park somewhere more reserved and even take the road for some caresses, but very carefully? nothing too complex not to lose attention in traffic.
6. In the building
Who has never imagined (or even practiced) doing a quickie on the service stairs or the elevator? In such cases you need to be aware of the presence of surveillance cameras. A bump in these places can give you a headache with the neighborhood.
7. At work
In your office or his, but only if one of you has a private room. Imagine surprising your love with an intimate visit? For sure the rest of the work day will be much more enjoyable.
8. At the motel
How about kidnapping? your partner for a quick break at the motel, at lunch time or at work break? This place still has the advantage that you can take a shower to get back to your daily tasks without being disheveled.
9. In the bathroom of the party or bar
This is a place synonymous with a lot of adventure. The degree of difficulty here is greater than that of all the places mentioned above. In a party or club we are usually more relaxed and it can be a great choice to make the event even more lively for both of you.
Does the quickie have rules?
A good quickie, like everything else in sex, doesn't carry many rules or obligations. The cool thing is to be spontaneous and different. But just like everything in life, some aspects must be taken into account:
- If you think you can roll a quickie or have a tendency to do so, be sure to carry your favorite condom with you. Sex and protection go together, even at the busiest times.
- In public places, be very careful that you are not surprised. It is also your responsibility to maintain the minimum of common sense. The idea is to be exciting but never disrespectful to anyone.
- Don't go out and tell your coworkers or the condo about the gimmicks you've done there. News runs fast and can get you in trouble.
- Keeping clothes handy is also important when sex happens in places where you might be surprised at any time.
- The main rule: allow yourself and have fun!
Not only does a quick relationship sustain itself
Now that you know all about modality, don't let it be more present in your sex life than a fuller relationship. The quickie is for immediate satisfaction and to give more movement to the relationship, but one mode should not exclude the other. This could disrupt your emotional life by not providing depth in the relationship.
Sexologist Walkíria Fernandes warns: “We should not forget that the quickies must be sporadic so that they can bring even that feeling of hot sex. However, if relationships are, for the most part, within a short time, can they compromise motivation, reducing sexual desire?
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