Tips to encourage your partner to do more oral sex on you

Sex should be an act of pleasure for both parties involved. Both men and women must have their desires fulfilled by their partners for satisfaction to be total.

And what man doesn't love to receive oral sex ?! Of this woman no doubt! But the problem is that some men forget that their partner can and should benefit from this type of sex.

Of course, many men love receiving and have no problem doing oral sex with their partner, and even enjoy it. But it is true that some do have difficulties in doing so, as sexologist Walkiría Fernandes explains.

• Those who dislike probably had in their education some negative representation of the vagina, such as the idea of ​​being a smelly organ, or that should not be taken to the mouth. Even some women have difficulty receiving oral sex for the same reason ?, he says. "Still others have not developed a greater intimacy with the female figure, presenting some difficulty of closer contact," adds the professional.

But the good news for women is that there are ways to encourage your partner to have oral sex on you! Or even encourage him to do more? in the case of those men who have the habit of doing it at one time or another. Check out some tips:

Hygiene

The first thing a woman should take is in relation to her intimate hygiene, as pointed out by sexologist Walkíria. ? Although most report caution, they often do not have it properly. Being clean and smelling is a fundamental condition to receive oral sex ?, he says.

If possible, before sex, invite your partner to take a shower with you. No doubt it will be a pleasurable time for both of you, and your partner will know that you do care about keeping your private parts in good condition.

"Consultations with the gynecologist are equally important, so that the woman knows if she has no infection or a foul-smelling discharge," adds sexologist Walkíria.

Do it yourself first

If you know that your partner loves oral sex, if he keeps his private parts clean, there is no reason not to! Start it yourself and go for it.

Then you can ask if he liked it and say gently and sensuously that now is your turn. He will probably not refuse your request and more: he will be happy to offer you the same feeling!

Use oils

A good tip is to buy some flavored edible oil from those we found in sex shop. If you know what his favorite flavor is (grape, strawberry, chocolate, etc.), even better!

The partner is sure to be super excited about the gift and understand that in addition to receiving, should do oral sex on you. After all, you capricious even in choosing the flavor!

State your wishes

Dialogue is always very important between the couple. Even when it comes to sex! Sometimes the partner does not do or have little oral sex in the woman because they do not realize / know how much she likes the act.

Demonstrating pleasure and talking openly with him about willingness to receive oral sex are key measures.

But if you're all right with your intimate hygiene and talking to him about it, you notice that your partner has some difficulty accepting the idea of ​​having oral sex, it's time for a more serious conversation.

If the woman wants to receive oral sex but notices that the man does not accept the idea well, one must ask him why. Knowing this makes it easier to handle the situation. It's important for her to say she likes it and would like him to have oral sex on her. The more the couple is free to have intimate conversations, the better the affective sexual relationship tends to be ?, concludes the sexologist Walkíria.

With a good dialogue, a good deal of creativity and a lot of sensuality, the woman can get everything she wants in bed! So if today's goal is to receive (more) oral sex, follow the tips and good luck!